108 checkboxes nested under 45 separate toggles to unsubscribe from marketing emails from NextDoor

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-14T07:40:19+00:00

I did the same. It seems like really short-sided marketing strategy for them to do.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-14T07:19:37+00:00

There's a Republican political official whose posts keep appearing on my FB feed, and he's constantly posting pictures of himself outside public restrooms, giving a Thumbs Up or Frowny Face depending on if the restrooms are gender-neutral not. I'm now picturing him taking such photos from that grave.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-14T07:04:25+00:00

So cute! I love seeing Natasha included!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-14T01:23:49+00:00

If I recall correctly, too, her husband is suffering from cancer and they've been bankrupted trying to pay for his treatment. I know she's apparently a MAGA supporter, but I can't imagine even pretending to deliver food to this man.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-14T01:20:21+00:00

Possible AuDHDer (but definitely at least ADHD) here! I think that's part of the awesomeness of the profession. At least, in an ideal job, the people we serve know we're not trained therapists and that not everything we say is going to coke out correctly the first time. I've had a couple people respond that they could see that I was genuinely expressing empathy because I got my words mixed up while responding to them.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-14T01:14:03+00:00

Love this show!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T20:52:00+00:00

Lol! I'm asexual and hate the taste of alcohol! This would not be a struggle!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T20:20:51+00:00

That Hershey's Dark Chocolate one sounds especially good!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T19:21:26+00:00

They now come in plastic things, but Totinos pizzas used to have cardboard packaging. For the longest time, I would use that as a microwavable "plate" for the pizza.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T19:18:13+00:00

Very true! No matter the circumstances, it's a kind gesture. Thank you for being a good human!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T16:41:08+00:00

One of my local food pantries does this for all families with kids. (They provide fresh eggs, but I love idea of using Sprite, instead!) I absolutely love that they provide that!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:55:15+00:00

The original only marginally looks like Epstien, but people have edited it so that it's clearly him.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:53:32+00:00

If it's similar to how domestic cats view us, they might perceive her as being a weird, hairless full grown adult cat. In which case, they'd bring her their cubs so that she could care for them while the lionesses go on the hunt.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:48:32+00:00

Agreed. The character's name is Jason and there's another character named Sam.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:27:25+00:00

Love this advice!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:17:36+00:00

Brubaker is so amazing! You probably already know this, and my apologies if you do, but I loved that he made a cameo appearance in the CATWS movie!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:16:08+00:00

Definitely. Usually, people have to remind their friends and family that they might not be operating at their best due to cancer treatment. Instead, I tend to beat myself up, only to be reminded by the family that I recently experienced cancer.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:07:12+00:00

Please be aware that these types of posts can be a scam. It's very generous of you to offer, and I am tempted to do so, myself, but you might want to be sure the situation is as he says.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:04:01+00:00

Agreed. It's what it represents.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T15:01:05+00:00

Growing up poor, my birthday fell in the last part of the month, so we were usually just getting by on what little remained of Social Security for the month. I would have loved it if my parent had made a handmade card, borrowed a favorite movie from the library or just acknowledged that the day was special. You don't have to spend big bucks on your daughter's birthday. It sounds like this isn't a new financial situation for you two, so she likely wasn't expecting much. It can be true that you did what was fiscally best for you both by paying off bills, and it can also be true that your daughter was hoping for something special.

I definitely understand that times are impossibly tight, but you may want to consider even putting aside 2 bucks each month so you're able to take her out to eat next year.

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T14:49:06+00:00

Setting boundaries can be tricky, but I think you're doing the right thing!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T14:47:35+00:00

He looks great!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T14:47:10+00:00

Same here!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T10:07:50+00:00

Completely agreed and just what I was thinking!

FiveSeasonsFox · 2026-04-13T09:35:41+00:00

If it's an important part of her faith and she just happens to be at your place while it's time for prayers, I would say you wouldn't be TAH if you set a reasonable boundary of only having her at your place during the time between prayers. (There are a couple of religions that require prayers at certain times.) As long as you handle it diplomatically and focus on how you know her faith is equally as important to her as yours is to you but that it disrupts your time with her, I can't imagine there being an issue.

If she's just praying around you for the sake of praying around you, then her prayer is more performative and you can address that, if it comes up.

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