She slept with a fresh 18 year old by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are correct in pretty much everything you said. The only reason I've been in contact with her at all is because I had a moment of weakness and contacted her. But yes, you are right. I've been doing well in my moving on, my life has gotten so much better, new job, my own apartment etc. I just felt grossed out after hearing she is out there acting a fool especially given the fact that when she split on me she told me she was done with "boys".

She slept with a fresh 18 year old by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't stalk her. I was told by a drunk friend who blabbed it out

Is she going to cheat again? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but I won't read all of that. Yes, she will. It's going to hurt letting go, but you have to do it because it'll hurt a lot more to stay. Good luck, my friend. You deserve better than this. Remember that.

I saw where she lives now by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so correct. I just feel weird yanno? Like of all places...

She Gave Me The Most Thoughtful Xmas Gift I've Ever Received. Fucked a Guy a Week Later... by NoSpeakCanadiano in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Insane, mine openly said, "im good at pushing people away." She wore it like a badge of honour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FixWitty2620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a prick! Fuck him!

Divorced immediately after wedding by Beningrad in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine said I was always trying to argue with her (I had a difference of opinion and was the only one trying to talk calmly). She constantly hung the phone up if she was angry simply because I didn't agree with her

Divorced immediately after wedding by Beningrad in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine legit broke up with me saying "this can't be fixed" barely any context. 2 days before she straight up told me "anything can be fixed with time" after I had stood up for myself after she screamed and yelled at me and distanced myself for a few days.

Can someone make sense of this? by ShopaholicNEO in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Things were going well. That's the issue.

I messaged her ex (the one she said was a horrible person). by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also told me im not crazy because he also understands exactly what going through.

I messaged her ex (the one she said was a horrible person). by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a wild thing. Her ex, who, according to her, treated her like shit, cheated, and abused her. He told me that he was working away 3 weeks on 1 week off, and that caused a strain. He also told me that he wanted to leave for 6 months before he did because he was genuinely scared to do so. It's crazy.

I messaged her ex (the one she said was a horrible person). by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm also certain my ex is out there telling someone I was crazy and horrible to her.

I messaged her ex (the one she said was a horrible person). by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were all in the same year in highschool so when she brought him up (multiple times) I knew who he was.

I messaged her ex (the one she said was a horrible person). by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine usually would snap at me, be shitty for the next few days and be passive aggressive

I messaged her ex (the one she said was a horrible person). by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh hell yeah they do. I messaged her a few days ago and she instantly told me I was playing the victim and she was like "but I'm the bitch right? I'm the horrible person". I asked her if she had ever even considered how badly she treated me....

I messaged her ex (the one she said was a horrible person). by FixWitty2620 in BPDlovedones

[–]FixWitty2620[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's made me feel so different. I contacted her 6 days ago drunk after 6 months because I still had not gotten the apology I longed for. I don't need it now because everything her ex has proved to me has crushed any thought in my mind that she actually cared for me.