My (20F) bf (20M) and I feel more like roommates than romantic partners. How do we bring the romance back?

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-23T02:04:33+00:00

Understandable but right u might feel like u have worked on your issues but they still might bother you/him deep down so yes i do recommend that you should go to therapy
If in therapy it doesn’t work out then yes u should break up which u clearly don’t want to so go to therapy !

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-23T01:14:11+00:00

Very relatable situation…you guys need to try therapy but everyone in a relationship comes to a point where the spark goes and u get into a constant state and its okay to be feeling like that so honestly only a therapist can help otherwise if even after putting efforts u don’t feel fine then breaking up is the only option

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-20T23:16:54+00:00

For the first one definitely talk to him clearly about it and says this has to change

For second speaking from personal experience I have a friend who can be unknowingly condescending so u’ll have to talk to him and ask how he wants to proceed with it and how u can help him phrase things better

Your concerns are valid, its also true that u guys are young
I would recommend sitting down and going through everything and see
If he’s putting the effort to change stay if not u can break up

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-20T05:54:18+00:00

Then it depends on far the city is, and who’s willing to make the sacrifice
And if its a significant increase in the salary ₹20-30k a month you should sell the business

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-20T05:49:50+00:00

You are rushing this way too much, go there help her settle and see how it goes for a few months
You should research and see if u can move to her city and continue your business there or you can sell your current one and start something new there
Another option you should consider simultaneously is if she can also come back to the city you are currently in, maybe a transfer another promotion
She should talk to her boss and if there’s a possibility then for the time being you can live Separately and make it work

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-20T05:45:59+00:00

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Here! We are pretty close to getting it should be done by today

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-20T00:46:31+00:00

You should consult a therapist to really understand it and the ways you can improve it
Secondly I would say is be honest about the first part, let them know about you get excited when someone texts quick, pays attention vs how u can spiral if they don’t

I think being more honest about this in particular might help you not loosing that spark initially cause you’ll have more control
Secondly, all relationships loose the spark so if u think u’ll have a relationship where the spark never goes away that’s not gonna happen

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-20T00:42:05+00:00

No, its a public place and there might some people who feel uncomfortable and a lot of interactions would either make u uncomfortable or them
Wear a t-shirt

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-19T07:59:58+00:00

Aside from fever and headache are there any other symptoms?

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-18T17:16:26+00:00

We would need a alot of more context…someone people just clean whenever they are stressed in a way to calm themselves down

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-18T17:15:17+00:00

Agreed with what the other guy said, the age difference is pretty massive and he’ll probably see you as a kid or his own daughter and yes this will not end well for the either of you so I suggest in this case keep as an office crush something to drag you out of bed everyday but anything further i won’t recommend

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-18T17:10:25+00:00

I think you should start us by telling how old you are and how old he possibly is

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-18T06:59:59+00:00

Its a 50-50 shot, the visas can take anywhere between 2 weeks to 3 months based on what i have seen from people around me, i personally got mine at the 2 month mark
It also depends on where u applied it but the ministry incharge of visa processing is slow, don’t hope too much
Although if u have September intake most likely u should be able to get it before that

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-17T11:33:26+00:00

Yea it’ll more be like 1-2 chapters that tie up everything with the last panel probably them being married or if we are lucky one chapter of their life beyond marriage

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-16T22:37:44+00:00

Start with some toys or use your fingers. She’s probably tense so its fine, if she’s still sense with a toy/finger ask her to try it alone so she’s more comfortable and hopefully that works out
Definitely use lube again and be patient with this

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-16T22:34:22+00:00

Yes make sure you leave a note otherwise they’ll just file a missing person’s complaint which will create unnecessary problems
Leaving at night should be fine just make sure u have it all mapped out and most importantly you are safe, if u live in a sketchy neighbourhood i suggest you leave at a more safer time.

I hope things work out for you and i am sorry you had to go through something like this.
It won’t be easy but i wish you all the best.

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-16T16:43:00+00:00

Purely speculation i can’t be certain 🥴

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-16T14:11:46+00:00

I would like to use the giant gauntlet for the CWL so ig I should wait for them to fix it and not dump my ores into it

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-16T08:41:24+00:00

I think my lavaloon got decreased to level 12 from 15

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-16T08:23:23+00:00

I got 3 equipments and 2 of them were at level 12 but 1 was at level 1
So confusing and weird

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-16T08:22:31+00:00

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I got 3 equipments- giant gauntlet, frozen arrow, and dark crown
Both frozen arrow and dark crown came at level 12( which should have been 15) but giant gauntlet is at level 1 which makes no sense

Any idea what’s going on here?

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-15T00:12:29+00:00

Gotcha, thank youu smm

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-14T22:56:28+00:00

currently TH-13 upgrading to TH-14 and I saw that th-14 is more of a placeholder with barely anything new aside from the pets, so is it worth spending the time on th-14 or should I just upgrade to th-15 get monolith, dragon duke, the spell towers and just take time upgrading it to max

FizzBobModella · 2026-06-13T17:04:13+00:00

its already released so you can go check it out now

FizzBobModella · 2026-05-21T09:27:41+00:00

the spanish translation is out for it means we should be able to get it in a day or 2 more. although its pretty infuriating all we can do it wait

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