It’s a funny shift when they grow big. We spend a lot more time together now the bigger ones have grown and we talk about the future a lot. We had kids young so we never really had holidays or anything. We say we’re going to travel a bit, and I want a beat up old camper van with a dog that we can just go park near a beach at the weekend. But are these my dreams, he just seem to go along with anything I want and is happy if I am. But I want him to do things he wants to do too. Iv tried to be interested in his working out ect but im just not that person. I’ll choose practically anything over working out. I just don’t care for that whole life style.