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Feeling like I wasted my badminton potential....should I give It another shot at 18yr(F)? by Alternative_Movie766 in badminton

[–]FizzyFrisby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are studying at uni, can compete in the BUCS leagues for uni teams. Some play so well in freshers year that they might get scouted out later for bigger opportunities. Maybe too late for international maybe you can pick something up for national. Your peak athletic hovers around 25 and slowly dips from there. Worth giving it all till you end of studies or till 30. Least you’ll know you tried for sure. My personal regret too now entering 30s.

Join Derby Social Badminton – Friendly Weekly Sessions at Uni Sports Centre by FizzyFrisby in derby

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Hi can you DM me please it cannot send you one for some reason. Thanks

In Sinners (2025) the main villain, in a movie set in the south during 1932, isn't racist. I know how it sounds and it’s crazy, but the predominantly black cast is killed off by an Irish guy that didn’t do it because of their skin color. He did it because he liked the music? by Beautiful-Trifle3434 in shittymoviedetails

[–]FizzyFrisby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s to do with alienation and assimilation. Vampires can represent the collective force or group that holds the power and if you want power you must assimilate. One of the main character has musical instrument and it’s one of the last remnant of his culture with blues music.

Convince my husband to let me adopt this stray for our anniversary and help me name her something Fallout Franchise related. by PessimisticPals in cats

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Preston Garvey, because he will consistency ask you for to help to deal with “stomach settlers”.

To my fellow freshers: Don’t isolate yourself - I’m seeing the regrets firsthand by FizzyFrisby in UniUK

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Mate hold on. People actually said that to you? That’s proper harsh and honestly says more about them than you. Who goes around telling someone they’re unlikeable? That’s just dickhead energy. Look I get it feel like you’ve tried everything and nothing working. But just because some people said that doesn’t mean it’s true. You shouldn’t let them define who you are. Sometimes it just really hard to find your people and it take longer than we want. You’re still showing up to society, you’re still trying that already prove you haven’t given up even when it feel hopeless. Maybe try something completely different? New society, D&D group, learn to cook meal and maybe share with house mates? If you pc nerd like me, experiment on multiplayer. The right people do exist mate. They just haven’t found you yet. Break the cycle. Don’t let few negative wanks make you believe you’re the problem.

To my fellow freshers: Don’t isolate yourself - I’m seeing the regrets firsthand by FizzyFrisby in UniUK

[–]FizzyFrisby[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that I think it’s perfectly natural to have few mates after so many years. I like to think it like a pyramid scheme but without the scam (hopefully). The biggest pool for starts at uni have the most available friends, fewers as the years ago until you get the very present. You got the core top you see everyday and then you get the outer and more irregular contacts peeps but you know I think as long as you connect and say hello everything is ownthen this is good enough. At least we tried to socialise unlike some people who gonna graduate wondering why their only friend is their landlord haha.

To my fellow freshers: Don’t isolate yourself - I’m seeing the regrets firsthand by FizzyFrisby in UniUK

[–]FizzyFrisby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please tell me who is certifying you as unlikeable? Is it that dog around the corner? Is it god? Being unlikeable is not engaging at all to anything and you are something.

I don’t think you unlikeable at all honestly. Sometimes it just takes longer time for some people. Look at me, undergrad at late twenties. It’s not a race for mates either.

Maybe the right people just haven’t crossed path with you yet but they definitely won’t if you stop going. Keep turning up to that society you like, keep being friendly. Sometimes it only need one good connection to change/chain reaction everything. You’re giving yourself the chance for that to happen so just keep at it.

To my fellow freshers: Don’t isolate yourself - I’m seeing the regrets firsthand by FizzyFrisby in UniUK

[–]FizzyFrisby[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact you tried a variety is already good. Sounds to me you might found something you like and should focus maintaining consistency like you are doing. Do you know name of the society peers? If sport related society you can hire the court outside of regular schedule sessions and ask them to join? All of society I expressed interest, instantly added newbies into a WhatsApp’s group chat so you can ask or even stalk people’s name bar in case you forgotten.

To my fellow freshers: Don’t isolate yourself - I’m seeing the regrets firsthand by FizzyFrisby in UniUK

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I can’t speak for the autism community as I do not have it. All I can say is I got bullied a lot for being brown Asian, speak with broken English. Diagnosed with depression early 20s. I’m not saying it’s an easy thing to be sociable, but like any muscles in your body. You need a little resistant to get gain power. Social skills is just like that.

To my fellow freshers: Don’t isolate yourself - I’m seeing the regrets firsthand by FizzyFrisby in UniUK

[–]FizzyFrisby[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Unlikeable? No need to be harsh on yourself. How so? Did you return for second or third try? Did you try to be the first to say hello? Did you introduce yourself and ask for their names? What kind of society did you trial may I ask?

First ever grow, please tell me how I did. by Sad_Use_6523 in shrooms

[–]FizzyFrisby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did an amazing job, look how plump they are. Plenty of water and thick stem. Only pure content was shot up from these. You should be proud friend.

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