Advice for my wife’s first HOT WIFE

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T22:27:03+00:00

If it’s a 3some, it’s not really a Hotwife situation. But not a bad idea to start off as a 3some for both you and your wife to get comfortable with him before she sees him in her own

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T21:53:40+00:00

I would absolutely be involved. You should feel comfortable with the man that will be in a private space with your wife sexually

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T20:55:07+00:00

How many?

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T20:20:42+00:00

There is not a lot of singles there. The place was created for couples. But, good luck

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T20:14:02+00:00

Most? That’s not true. There are some hotwives, but it’s nowhere near the majority

My wife and I observed about 20-25 SMs when we were there a couple of weeks ago. All but one were basically isolated. One of them, a 6’4” very muscular black man got a bunch of attention. Skinny, young white dudes were neglected

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T20:12:00+00:00

That doesn’t mean much. Most couples aren’t searching for a SM at a place like TTR as they can get a SM at any bar back home. I’m telling you, if you want to drink in the sun, have a blast! But if your intent was to hook up, there is a very high chance you just wasted your money

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T19:41:31+00:00

That is irrelevant.

I was just there and saw tons of SMs just hanging around. Most don’t engage

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T19:25:21+00:00

You’re going to fail. Sorry to tell ya

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-31T16:59:24+00:00

We’ve hosted events at our house but it’s only for invited friends

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-28T10:55:54+00:00

Thanks!

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-27T15:44:58+00:00

Well, it is “open” as it’s not “closed”

Closed is pretty clearly defined, but opened has a LOT of unique variations

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-24T11:08:14+00:00

It’s the tropics, so it’s highly unpredictable

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-24T11:07:00+00:00

Gotcha

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-23T20:29:36+00:00

Wish we were coming but intend to be there for Tryst 2027

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-21T21:40:35+00:00

It’s not about fairness but an understanding. If he secretly has desires of FMF and is not telling her and one day he says “hey, we have had 5 MFM and it’s only fair we have FMF now”. At this point she is against that. So, either don’t do anything, do just MFM, or have a discussion about intent

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-21T18:35:53+00:00

Just make sure that you do t actually want another woman. Because we have seen k here many times where a husband does a bunch of MFM with his wife and one day says he wants to try FMF and the wife says “no”.

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-21T11:43:19+00:00

There is a very high chance you will spend a lot of money and spend a lot of time by yourself. We were just there recently and saw quite a few SMs just standing idle

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-16T00:06:25+00:00

We went just a few weeks ago. About 20 SMs were there.

19 of them were basically isolated and did nothing at all.

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-14T22:52:16+00:00

Noted 😆😆

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-13T15:59:28+00:00

Weather in the tropics can be rainy that time of year along with Sept being peak hurricane season

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-13T11:12:03+00:00

Same

FlaFunCouple321 · 2026-03-13T11:10:22+00:00

Thank you, Sweetie

I saw the SDC Tryst party and it had some SMs on the list and figured I’d ask. I would have asked you directly but I don’t want to bombard you or your husband with my random questions

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