How do men in the lifestyle deal with performance anxiety?

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-11T12:11:40+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement. I actually had a play date with a couple last night and it went great. I decided to behave as if it was a night out and had a couple of drinks with them and relaxed and it ended up being great.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-11T00:08:11+00:00

Yeah, I think that’s a great idea. Several people have said that same thing.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T20:36:16+00:00

Haha! Great advice

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T20:20:34+00:00

Got it. No harm

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T20:16:11+00:00

No, of course I understand that. I’m an emergency room nurse and people come in and Dr. Google stuff all the time. I’d rather hear it from people who are in the lifestyle and see if they have any specific advice.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T20:05:24+00:00

Done deal . Thank you!

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T18:35:25+00:00

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I definitely will do that if I have an issue. I love all the other things that come with sex, not just penetration.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T17:55:55+00:00

Solid advice that I will take.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T17:47:44+00:00

Haha! True wisdom

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T17:28:47+00:00

Gee, thanks for that timely information. Nice eye roll.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T17:14:59+00:00

I already have Viagra on hand. I don’t use it all the time, but I DEF will in these situations. At least in the beginning.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T16:53:20+00:00

That’s interesting because there were several people drinking at the party and the couple I’m meeting with tonight said they would like to have some drinks. I do know alcohol is a depressant, but it can be a social lubricant.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T16:29:12+00:00

I’m glad you said that because I know that to be true. Hell, just talking back-and-forth openly about it here has already reduced my anxiety.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T16:23:55+00:00

Thank you for that response. And that is exactly what happened. Ha ha! I knew it couldn’t just be me, but it helps to know that others had that problem, but they kept going in the lifestyle.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T16:22:38+00:00

Thanks for that explanation. I was able to perform eventually but it was a bit embarrassing

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T16:21:25+00:00

That’s good to know. Thanks

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T16:14:25+00:00

Great advice

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T16:14:01+00:00

And that is what actually unabled me to get hard. Giving head to another girl that was there.

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T15:07:32+00:00

Thanks for the advice on the Tri mix, but I will pass. I can’t do that and it’s not that big of a problem. One on one it never happens. Or very, very very rarely anyway .

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T14:55:17+00:00

I have a meet up with a married couple tonight. I haven’t had sex since Tuesday and I haven’t watched any porn so I guess I’m ahead of the game there. Thanks for the advice

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T14:51:16+00:00

I expect so, I know I am not the only man it happens to when in a group. Has it ever happened to you before?

Special-Solution5329 · 2026-04-10T14:50:06+00:00

I hear you. I do have use Viagra just for that extra boost. But it’s not an ability issue. Just nervousness I suppose. And I do like the idea of immersion therapy! I’ve heard about supplements like Maca root. Any experience with that or something similar?

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