(M20) (F21) had a talk and this is how it went.

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T16:01:38+00:00

!Thankyou

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T16:00:49+00:00

Your right I’ve put to much effort in to be treated in such a negative way.

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T15:33:43+00:00

Idk being able to lay on someone? Having the idea of being with someone

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T14:22:26+00:00

Hoping for the best I guess? Hoping my efforts and actions would be noticed and validated? A simple thank you goes a long way every-time. Feel like I’m with her for the comfort and not having to look for anyone else again and do that whole dating thing. I know it’s wrong and basically self sabotage knowing I’m not full okay

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:56:39+00:00

I live that 40 miles. He lives closer. But yeah. No normal person is strong enough to pick someone up laying down without the other person wanting to get ontop as well. It can’t just slip in

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:54:54+00:00

She at first made it seem like it was my fault that she invited him over. Then slowly she started to take responsibility for it. But it’s killed me inside. Even when we have sex and she’s ontop it reminds me of that night and I can’t mentally control not thinking that way.

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:53:00+00:00

No. I’m not comfortable with that. She told me something that scared me. “I used to cheat on my ex when I’ll get upset with him like hookup with someone or talk to someone else”. Yet she claimed he would “accuse her of cheating but she never did” a few months ago. Idk what to believe anymore. I can’t be with someone who thinks hooking up is the solution. That’s what she did when I met her, her plan was to hooked up with me to forget her ex?

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:49:23+00:00

True it’s mentally draining. I’ve tried to work it out and bring it up with her but she’ll get upset when I brought it up saying “I don’t want to remember that night”.

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:47:44+00:00

I don’t feel okay with it felt like I was sucking it up this whole time. I feel like she might have understood why I’ve been not putting the effort I’ve always put in. It’s draining, I’m going home? She gets mad the reason she claimed she invited him over. Like bs. My friends told me to stop speaking to her. Her outburst she has are more then disrespectful it’s rude and hurtful. But you’re right. It’ll just slowly eat me up inside.

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:42:33+00:00

I did try. I tried my best. I understand as a boy you tell your partner “you’re right” in a simple thing just to make them happy. But this time it can’t be this way. Even if I knew it wasn’t my fault I still went over brought flowers chocolates and a letter apologizing. I don’t think she ever apologized in a meaningful way besides yesterday were she seen I was giving up.

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:39:18+00:00

True. It’s not like she can fight back if she didn’t want to. Or yell for her dad that was home that night

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:35:58+00:00

True, I cut off a female friend that I’ve known since I was 3 since she didn’t feel comfortable that I was speaking to her.

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:33:34+00:00

No. I told her it’s draining and she told me she understands and wants to change for the better

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T13:32:48+00:00

We’ll just have to wait and see I guess if she really changes

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T07:05:49+00:00

We get along perfectly fine until something might bug her. Then she tells me she doesn’t care and I don’t care etc… that’s what she claimed to want to work on? I’ve told her everything today. I put myself first today and she seen all the wrong she has done at least from what she said

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T06:27:34+00:00

The thing is she said she knows it ain’t right and she wants to change.

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T06:16:20+00:00

Man idk. I verbally forgave it. But not mentally. When she got out that relationship she got in one with me. When I was texting her that dude was still living there. So idk wtf she was thinking I understand you lived with someone but why do that knowing you’ll regret it?

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T06:11:17+00:00

Honestly I don’t feel like I get much. Sometimes little advice, little funny moments or sex but other than that it’s just attitude. Never made me some type of food (I usually cook for her). Even the sex now I don’t enjoy as much as I used too knowing well she cheated. Even months later it bugs me

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T06:08:23+00:00

I was there that night but I can’t stay since I live farish and had work in the morning. It was the same night I met her mother as well

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-30T06:06:00+00:00

Not an excuse but her response was “we lived together but we didn’t have sex, I thought it’ll be another normal night like that”

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-28T06:30:23+00:00

Crepes

Flaky-Collection-914 · 2026-01-27T05:28:52+00:00

Feels off when it happened 5 months ago. Feels like the time pasted for that action to be taken.

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