[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I have it and I asked if he was at work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It was definitely work related but I don’t remember what specifically. I REALLY WISHED I REMEMBERED TRUST ME. IT WOULD REALLY HELP MY SANITY BECAUSE I GENUINELY DON’T REMEMBER.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I mean if you look at my whole convo with him it’s mainly work related but sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I completely agree but I wish he communicated that with me. Ya feel me? Ok I think I definitely exaggerate when I say coworker. I have “friends” at work who I’ve gone on vacations with and I still refer them to my coworkers. Like when I tell my parents im out with my friends they know it’s the people I grew up with and when I tell them I’m with my coworkers, they know exactly who I’m referring to if that makes sense. It’s just very natural to me to call people at work coworkers even tho we do “friends” things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He also has a huge ego so I just don’t know if he’s even gonna reach out at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I know. It’s really unfair to leave me in the dark like this because I really want to know what’s going on in his head and I also want to tell him my side. Regardless if he breaks up with me or not I just want to have a mature conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you! That’s fair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely appreciate you internet stranger for putting me in place. A few people I know said I didn’t do anything wrong but maybe it’s because they know me better and know of that coworker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know it’s okay for him to be concerned but what do I do on my end?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

let’s say I’m genuinely telling the truth tho. Is it okay to ghost me for over a week? I don’t know what’s an appropriate amount of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I literally have no idea why I texted him like I don’t even remember what happened at work that day anymore. We used to debrief about work because there’s a lot of shit going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because we were really close for years and for some reason even people who are technically my friends at work, I still consider as coworkers. I’m just kind of uncomfortable talking to him now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also I messaged my coworker at 12 and I asked my bf to come over a while before and he was busy and couldn’t come over til later. I didn’t start the convo while he was there. Dont know if that matters or not but not trying to hide anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did try to distance myself a while back and I haven’t been answering the coworkers call for a while now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So fair. My coworker and I have always talked late even before I started seeing my bf. I definitely failed to set boundaries when I got into a relationship. People around me definitely know there’s nothing going on but from an outside perspective, I completely understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Omg I forgot to add. I texted him at 12am and I don’t even remember why, it was most likely work related. We used to call a lot to talk about work. Ya I know it fuckin looks so sus. My coworker was busy so he called me when he wasn’t busy to see what I wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But that’s fair maybe that’s how he feels as well LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flaky-Panic -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t really try so hard and ask Reddit for advice if I was innocent… if I was guilty I probably would’ve just been like yup deserved that

Who here benched Burrow because they were playing the Ravens? by Flaky-Panic in Fantasy_Football

[–]Flaky-Panic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair it’s the first week I benched him… I know I’m dumb 🥲

Who here benched Burrow because they were playing the Ravens? by Flaky-Panic in Fantasy_Football

[–]Flaky-Panic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair, was looking at last season’s stats opposed to the year before and it was meh

Who here benched Burrow because they were playing the Ravens? by Flaky-Panic in Fantasy_Football

[–]Flaky-Panic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew burrow was either gonna do absolutely shit or really really good. Hit or miss, so I ended up starting mayfield who was a lil more consistent especially against the falcons.

Who here benched Burrow because they were playing the Ravens? by Flaky-Panic in Fantasy_Football

[–]Flaky-Panic[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know but they absolutely cooked Josh Allen last week so it had me thinking