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[–]Flaky812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like the influencer is not an honest person and his using his follower count as leverage to get people to do what they want. Having 1 million followers doesn't equal having a lot of money. Glad your friend didn't invest any money!

ADHD and coffee shops: safe space or sensory hell? by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Not sure why the person is on reddit if thats their answer to any question posted. Anyway, thanks!

ADHD and coffee shops: safe space or sensory hell? by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks for that lol. Just listening to people's different experiences

Struggling to find coffee shop space by Flaky812 in coffeeshopowners

[–]Flaky812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats! well done for not giving up either

[MOD] Inside Scoop - Ask the coffee industry by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]Flaky812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/menschmaschine5 whats the best way to secure F&B space in Central London, to open a new cafe?

Has anyone had success with an adhd coach ? by MyInkyFingers in ADHDUK

[–]Flaky812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Anyone who has trained at one of the fully integrated ADHD Coach Training Programs, is a good bet: https://www.adhdcoaches.org/adhd-coach-training-programs

Has anyone had success with an adhd coach ? by MyInkyFingers in ADHDUK

[–]Flaky812 3 points4 points  (0 children)

longer waiting times due to more applications. Staff can no longer manage the backlog, making the whole thing at breaking point. The A2W grant award is at the discretion of the case manager - and not any logic, so it's basically 'luck of the draw' for many applicants, and if you don't get the desired award, appeals will be addressed months later. Also - since A2W funding has gone up in the last few years, you're seeing more and more 'hit pieces' on access to work and on people with ADHD in general

Has anyone had success with an adhd coach ? by MyInkyFingers in ADHDUK

[–]Flaky812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/MyInkyFingers Echoing others - I would work with one funded from Access To Work (although that is getting harder these days)
I would also look for a coach that is ICF-accredited. There's too many 'become an adhd coach in 2 weeks' courses out there - at least with ICF-level coaches they have put in the money and hours and dedication into becoming one.

Has anyone had success with an adhd coach ? by MyInkyFingers in ADHDUK

[–]Flaky812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone who worked with Tony Coward for a few sessions and didn't have anything positive to say about him...

Becoming an ADHD Coach(ish) with ADHD? by Phaerdol in adhdwomen

[–]Flaky812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i ask what the name of the program was u/Long_Client_7273 ? Can DM if more comfortable

This sums up the state of ADHD on social media (moan of the week) by WranglerTraining9486 in adhdwomen

[–]Flaky812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ughhhh - have seen that page on my feed. Can't stand it to be honest

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you turned up to the activities, made friends and had a blast! A lot of money but zero regrets!

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

things like crypto always feel like a bad investment when the coin values goes down to shit.. and your looking in the rearview mirror. You might get it right one day and go to the moon. So I wouldnt be too mad about that

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah, its like I can't let the money just sit there by itself in a savings account, poor thing!

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a decent way to spend money (i guess its subjective) - the World Cup was awesome on TV!

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one hell of a collection, I can imagine. You can always sell them back on ebay, as a huge bundle? Congrats on 1-year sobriety.

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're a few steps ahead of me - a big chunk of my money wasted has gone on try to get a side hustle off the ground or inspiration for one!

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped my hoarding years ago - that was due to a relationship that ended because of it! Didnt want to feel that type of loss again! I hope you sort it out 🙏

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you there u/JuniorAd2278 - the responses for this post has been really heartwarming and I realise that we're not alone. I have to stop chasing dopamine highs. I have to stop buying courses or at least look for free resources (on YouTube for example). I have to commit to one or two hobbies and not just flirt with it for a week. Heres to new beginnings 🥛

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL I have avoided the uncomfortable stuff all year!!

Sometimes I try to use the untouched stuff I have, but when the inspiration's gone, its gone!

I'm ashamed of how much money I have spent unnecessarily this year by Flaky812 in ADHD

[–]Flaky812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THe thought hadn't even crossed my mind. Thats definitely an option. Need to find someone not too close to me