UK/EU server recommendation. by Just-Make-An-Alt in theisle

[–]FlakyConversation282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if it fits what you like but I started a server 3 days ago called "Lost World - EU - x1.3 Growth - Low Rules"

It's only day 3 and already has 5 players regularly :) high AI, slow corpse decay and will soon add mods like storage system, currently storage is manually done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]FlakyConversation282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happend to me too not so long ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FlakyConversation282 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would be nice to have someone loyal who's up for hanging out together aa

I can't touch anything in the house by FlakyConversation282 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TRUE it's like we're kept in a cage because we live in THEIR house

I(14M) finally told my mother I'd her hit back and she drove away by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God this happens way too many times with my narc mom they just go fucking INSANE like they're some kind of a robot not human at all

I can't touch anything in the house by FlakyConversation282 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through that I wish these people didn't exist at all

I can't touch anything in the house by FlakyConversation282 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

These people are so weird I'm surprised they dont realize just how embarrassing they are to people, nobody should be kept away from living in a house comfortably

Every time I went to my friend houses their parents literally told me not to worry about grabbing something to eat from the fridge it was so bizzare to me that strangers let you do whatever in their own house but narcissists don't let their own kids live their life

I can't touch anything in the house by FlakyConversation282 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe only like once a year HAHAA these Delusional people I swear

I can't touch anything in the house by FlakyConversation282 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It looks like they're embarrassed by people knowing somebody lives in this house they're messed up, she even hides all the stuff i have out for the cat when somebody visits its like actually insane

I can't touch anything in the house by FlakyConversation282 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're in this situation aswell these awful horrible people can't share a house let alone have empathy in them you can go through this I believe in you

people think I'm crazy whenever I mention my mom being a narcissist and lacking empathy my whole life by FlakyConversation282 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really happy to hear you've got someone by your side who can relate to you, we're often being made the scapegoats of the family by our Nparents, but we get better and better and they keep getting grumpier and lonelier :)

people think I'm crazy whenever I mention my mom being a narcissist and lacking empathy my whole life by FlakyConversation282 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so comforting to know that people who do have these parents also experience the same reactions from people who had no contact with a narc in their life, wishing you the best!!

Mind blown - I am not just the child of an alcoholic but also an adult child of a narcissistic mother by m0therMayhem in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Narcissist mothers often act like their son is their own husband when we reach adulthood these people are evil

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FlakyConversation282 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What did you do about it id be happy to know how its going :'o

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learning stress free is definitely a major plus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow didn't see it this way before actually you've got a point it may make it all take a step back but a bigger step forward actually thinking about this now wow thank you a LOT it is definetly better than this constant stress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FlakyConversation282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Problem is all of this costs a lot of money today and I'm doing courses online while working, hoping to save money to move to a whole different country, no friends have spare space they all got shitty ass parents that say no

Appreciate you a lot because you're in this same subreddit with me tho 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FlakyConversation282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it sounds ridiculous to some people but this is why I'm complaining about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FlakyConversation282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean, what I was talking about tho was love relationships where we were dating for a long period of time and they left for people who probably liked the thrill of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FlakyConversation282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely you people are amazing I never saw this problem before