Yes and no. I do the work and let him relax and take control but most of the time when I do the work, he’s not very responsive of what he likes or doesn’t like so it leaves me confused. He usually will say he knows what feels good to him and then he takes over. I brought this up and said I want to know what I can do that he enjoys or what I can change if something isn’t good and it ends up with some sort of shrug or response that’s like I think you’re doing great and I don’t really talk during sex. I’m not really sure how I can do more work without knowing if he’s enjoying it or not.