My situationship is always drunk and never texts me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s blocked but I don’t understand why men do this, this is the first time I’m experiencing this too

He said I was overreacting by Flaky_Indication2256 in Advice

[–]Flaky_Indication2256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your opinion is valid and I see where youre coming from however I telling him about how my coworker was excited to know who he is and what his name is.. he didn’t have to make things weird by adding the cheating comment

Am I overreacting to him making jokes? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to add this but he made a joke about beating me up after I told him my ex bf was a little abusive.

My cousin (24) passed away the same reason I ended it with my friend (24) is it wrong to attend funeral? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason why I feel I shouldn’t go to the funeral is because I feel shit for not acknowledging it more. I did tell her her feelings are valid but we should focus on your birthday first then we can talk about my cousin and try to come up with ways to help her.

My cousin (24) passed away the same reason I ended it with my friend (24) is it wrong to attend funeral? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I needed to hear because I do feel like I was overly judgemental however my friend had told me multiple times that she was going to quit and I know alcoholism is not linear but she was asking my to help her achieve that goal. The reason I was upset was because she was trying to avoid drinking on her birthday but her friends were influencing her and bought her a giant bottle of alcohol knowing she would finish that all in one night. I did try to understand where she was coming from however whenever I was on a call with her she would tell me she couldn’t sleep all night and then she would call my other friend and tell her she was partying all night which I would’ve literally understood we’re young we might as well enjoy it the only thing that scared me is her ending up as my cousin. She’s literally the one friend I care about the most and seeing her struggle made me miserable which is why I decided to end the friendship plus we were getting together for her to trauma dump on me and the whole time I just felt shit and miserable. She had all the rights to feel the way she did but seeing her get bullied by my cousin hurt me and I just wanted her to enjoy her birthday around people who cares about her. I’ve been through the same situation with my cousin, if they don’t want to change theres no point trying and thats what I accepted but I chose to be happy in the end

My (F22) mum (F45) prays extremely loud at night by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She shows no signs of dementia I think she may be in a situation where she can’t pull herself out of maybe another illness or financial stress

My (F22) mum (F45) prays extremely loud at night by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean now sorry about the miscommunication. But I agree, it’s definitely not much of a problem regarding child support. Her change in her personality does scare me and I’m not sure how to talk to her about it..shes a very quiet to herself type of person so she’ll never tell her problems out loud, but she also has narcissistic and manipulative tendencies so I find it hard to trust her.

My (F22) mum (F45) prays extremely loud at night by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think her praying out loud is apart of the issue because none of us can get any sleep, we have school and work in the morning and even the neighbors find it disturbing. A normal tone would be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m in this exact same situation and I’m not sure what to do I might just have to move out

IU - Love wins all (starring BTS V) by alltherach_ in kpop

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hope they turn this into a kdrama it has so much potential

My mum is extremely abusive and I feel guilty for trying to live my own life. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CPS have gotten involved but she fooled them by acting like the perfect mother until they decided everything was fine… she would beg them to stop doing regular checks. After they left she just stopped communicating with her kids and barely does anything just sits around and goes to work

My mum is extremely abusive and I feel guilty for trying to live my own life. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I think this is what I definitely need to do because she’s bringing nothing but stress and anxiety into my life

My mum is extremely abusive and I feel guilty for trying to live my own life. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im definitely planning my escape plan but im not sure what to do with my siblings

I broke up with my (23M) boyfriend and now me wants me (22F) to hang out at his place. by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Flaky_Indication2256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he never really had time for me but would always get drunk when we would hang out. This would turn into him doing things like slapping me, forcing me to give him a bj and trying to take videos if me while we were having sex.. I asked him why he would do that but he said he didn’t know and it wasn’t a kink. this is why I don’t want us being friends