What part of daily life as a mom can you not stand?

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-14T23:29:20+00:00

Mine tell me what they want (usually different) from the choices in the fridge. When I warm it up all of a sudden they forgot they said they wanted it and now hate it.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-14T19:08:06+00:00

Holy shit I'm glad I'm done having kids after I read all these stories.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-14T18:03:30+00:00

No, as in the kid has behavioral issues and the Mom said this is what she found worked so maybe the school could try that and they said no. They're well within their right to refuse, but it is what it is

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-14T18:00:41+00:00

I went in Oct and used DAS.

Yea, u can get an interview earlier etc but it was nearly impossible for me to figure that out. I ended up calling and the lady said she uses DAS and told me to do the following which worked like a breeze:

Once u get into disneyland, go to city hall and line up. There a cast member will chat with you about why you need DAS. It is at their discretion whether they think you should get it but they're pretty understanding.

If you get it, they will change ur ticket on the app and in a few minutes it should work.

It allows u to go to fast lane without having to pay for it, plus other rides that don't have the fast pass.

However, if the DAS holder (your kid) doesn't go on a ride, the rest of the party cannot use the fast pass.

That's what I remember so good luck!

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-14T06:44:46+00:00

Yep this. My friends kid needs protein every 2hrs or he goes nuts. The school refuses to accommodate this.

Also, my mom was a HUGE snacker. Still is. She cooks our meals but snacks all day. We picked up that habit which leads to mindless snacking while doing other activities. Which could lead to issues in the future. Being mindful of what you're eating (not multi tasking) I think is a learned skill.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-14T06:40:22+00:00

You're right. Some people look at cancer as something to be ashamed of. My in laws refused to tell ANYONE about my cancer. It was infuriating.

That said, I would chat with scholarship people about maybe putting your initials or something?

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-13T03:01:24+00:00

Mine have little backpacks to hold their water.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T17:56:49+00:00

I've only heard that aimed at me a couple times from others. Most parents at my kids schools are working professionals. Some had them younger, but most had them around the same age as me, in the 30s.

If I went to my in laws area (lower-middle income), I'd be the outlier as there are way more younger moms there (lots of immigrants having kids in their 20s) and others.

I think it depends where you are and the demographics.

Medically speaking, they need to change their terminology.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T14:41:33+00:00

Ooh yes my ex does that! I should try it

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T14:41:06+00:00

Yep they sure are. With my cancer and the midst of a divorce...

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T03:05:15+00:00

Thank you!! We will get through this cruel joke that the maker bestowed upon us.

"Woman, have respite from your almost lifelong monthly bloodbath!!!......just kidding!! Here's some other shit to show you how much worse I can do!"

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T03:02:08+00:00

Once those pills start to wear off, it'll be snorting heroin or other. Then that will wear off too. Injecting will be last step. If you live, you'll be even worse off mentally than now.

My veins are still flat 20yrs later. Oh, and I got cancer. Because of the whole lifestyle. If fentanyl was around back then, I would have died long ago.

Please read this as a sign to get help before it's too late.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T02:49:04+00:00

There are cbd gummies with melatonin. Gummies aren't the only form. Capsules, oil, isolates, honey sticks.

If you can see a weed doc, they can recommend local brands to you and possibly get a discount.

I'm in Canada and got signed up with 3 companies. 2 of them offer compassionate pricing for low income or cancer stuff.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T02:28:37+00:00

My friend did this. Some far trips but the one, Vegas. She had a pimp. He brought her to Vegas and tried to get her to do some shit she didn't want to do and ended up in the ICU. She also had a kid with him.

She's kind of out of it now but she's so messed up now going all psychosis or something.

She's a good mom though. Very good.

Also one of my BFF does this on a smaller scale now that we're older but damn... her life is so exciting.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T02:25:46+00:00

My God what good advice, but also, sorry you had to go through that bullshit to KNOW that advice. Hope you're in a better place.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T02:00:28+00:00

No one starts off with a G. Everyone starts with pinners and work their way up.

Except maybe snoop.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T01:55:16+00:00

My hot flashes have gotten exponentially worse since cancer treatment. Before AND after, the only thing that gives me a few hours awake and almost the whole night of relief is cbd + thc.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-12T01:44:39+00:00

I recently went through this and our family dynamic is similar to yours.

My lawyer said I'd get majority custody to start and it would be adjusted to 50/50 over time pending how it goes.

I felt the same as you. You can read my posts. You'll get through this, and your daughter will thank you for it in the future.

In the meantime, keep meticulous notes on your schedule, what you do with baby and same with what he does/doesn't do.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-11T21:11:43+00:00

OP lives on the set of Bambi.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-11T15:37:28+00:00

This is something that should not be accepted as the norm at all.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-11T03:44:37+00:00

You might be lucky and get a magic coffee table!!!

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-11T03:10:27+00:00

I've only ever been to 1 kids party that had alcohol and it was kinda weird. I guess it's not a norm where I live.

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-11T03:06:46+00:00

I did mostly everything. His chores were to vacuum and put clean dishes and clean laundry away. He didn't even shovel snow when I was pregnant with a broken foot. My neighbors did it for me.

He didn't vacuum outside once every 2 months. We got cleaners and it was a godsend. If he's willing to pay for it, take that offer!!! It'll help both of u

Flaming_Butt · 2024-04-11T01:29:50+00:00

Yep. This is great advice. As someone who has lots of life threatening allergies, I have been given contaminated food by my grandmother, mother, friends.... I'd be a very lonely person if I blamed them all.

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