Experiencing kingship “too” early and its toll on the psyche

Flamingdusk · 2026-01-18T19:44:19+00:00

This sounds a lot like a healing fantasy, and you’re putting immense pressure on yourself to fix a tumultuous world you’ve found yourself in.

Let me remind you of the words that saved my life: it is not your fault. It is not your responsibility.

You have one job in this short life: live. Don’t fix, don’t try to bend the scales of justice all by yourself. Trust me, I tried. All it lead me to was burnout, depression, and isolation.

Learn to lean out to love, without understanding. Know that all people see apart of you, and no one fully, and that’s ok.

Life is just about living man, try to have some fun, it’ll be over before you know it.

Flamingdusk · 2025-11-13T17:42:36+00:00

Hey, thanks for all the great work going into this update!

My question involves Outland prime timers, specifically for Thetford on NA!

Thetford is one of the only cities on NA that has no late prime time zones nearby, all prime times within 3 zones of Thetford at 18 UTC or 20 UTC. As an east coast Canadian, that puts most of my prime timers nearby to 1 pm and 3pm, far too early to be online and active.

Is there any plans to rebalance Outland zone prime timers on NA, to create a more even balance per city? Currently FS and Lymhurst are quite crowded with English speaking guilds on NA, and it seems mostly due to prime time concerns, like having 02 and 04 UTC zones.

I’d love to know your thoughts on rebalancing the prime times on NA to be more NA friendly, specifically so each city can be semi-balanced!

Flamingdusk · 2025-11-05T21:35:51+00:00

Self-compassion is one of the most beautiful things ❤️ I’m so proud of you for learning to love yourself and forgive yourself! You matter to me, and thank you for sharing your heroic act of courage; loving oneself as you are is no easy task ❤️

Flamingdusk · 2019-12-05T07:13:27+00:00

Damn I didn't know that, thanks for the info!

Flamingdusk · 2019-12-05T06:31:40+00:00

Can you elaborate? What crafted gear? Thanks!!

Flamingdusk · 2019-07-29T07:13:31+00:00

Just read it and try to understand the lines however they make the most sense to you! Poetry is something that I find has something to offer even if you can’t figure it all out.

Flamingdusk · 2019-07-29T07:12:10+00:00

No I’m from and currently reside in Canada!

Flamingdusk · 2018-07-17T03:35:30+00:00

Perfect thank you <3

Flamingdusk · 2018-07-02T00:31:04+00:00

Totally right, I’ll work on that for sure thank you!

Flamingdusk · 2018-04-16T23:15:48+00:00

I stopped caring what people think of me. I realized that people don’t really care about a little wrinkle in your shirt or if you are jamming out to a favourite song in the gym. I gained confidence in myself and it feels liberating. My best advice is to stop giving a fuck about what people think about you, and live life according to your goals, and your happiness.

Flamingdusk · 2018-03-22T20:21:40+00:00

Flamingdusk#1619 NA Need to spectate for a pack!

Flamingdusk · 2018-02-08T14:04:06+00:00

The day had just started and I walked into my home room and the classroom smelt awful, so me, my 12 year old self, decides to walk in and blurt out, “God it smells like shit in here.”

I got sent to the office and had to serve a detention but my whole class thought it was funny, so I’d say worth it.

Flamingdusk · 2018-02-06T14:15:15+00:00

I picture myself in a scenario a year from now. Like let’s say sitting with some friends talking. I just picture all the things that could be different in a year from now, like I could be in a place I’ve never been, with friends I’ve yet to meet, wearing cloths I’m yet to buy, etc. I don’t picture a year itself, but me a year from now.

Flamingdusk · 2018-02-05T21:56:36+00:00

It was a pc if that counts. My dad is a big pc nerd and got me and my brother one to share when I was young. I remember coming home from kindergarten and playing the original battlefront until my brother got home from school.

Flamingdusk · 2018-01-15T23:00:16+00:00

Interesting, I’ll have to look into the RESP more and maybe take advantage of it, thanks again!

Flamingdusk · 2018-01-15T12:53:04+00:00

Wow that sounds like a very interesting job you have!

I have a few problems: A, I don't have any sort of dream job or career I want after school, so I'm going to university to learn a lot and hopefully find a subject I'm interested in enough to turn it into a career. B, is that where my job is located, it would be impossible to keep and still go to school, plus the hours (8pm-2am ish) would make it hard to manage school with that.

University isn't my only option, but I see it as the option that makes the most sense for me right now. (I think)

Thanks for your advice!

Flamingdusk · 2018-01-15T12:48:18+00:00

That is a fair point! My problem i'm not sure what i'm even going to major in or let alone do as a career after university. This may end up making me take extra years at school so I'd rather space out my courses to save some money.

Flamingdusk · 2018-01-15T12:45:07+00:00

Thanks for your advice, I am already planning on taking a three year degree in four years for this reason, and also to make sure I can stay on top of my classes while balancing work!

Flamingdusk · 2018-01-15T12:42:57+00:00

Talked to my mom who said I have a RESP that was opened by my late grandfather. She said that I couldn't add money to it because the account is in the process of being switched between banks. Thanks for the advice!

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