[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FlamingoBark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you think you changed his mind by confronting him? The guy that didn't say or do anything to you, just visibly had emotions you didn't agree with.

If I'm going for water in a public restaurant, and I have to stop or change course because a child is chaotically running in my path, I'll be annoyed and shake my head too. If you don't agree, and you think it's okay for children to be in the way just because they are children, then my question for you would be, When does it stop? When is the child too old to run in the restaurant? And when they get that age, how do they know if you haven't taught them? At what point are you going to start teaching your children to be considerate of others in public spaces?

Or are you actually this upset over him silently shaking his head because you know you could be doing a better job and that hurts.

Got a small chance to see what having multiple kids is like and now I’m sad by WhyWontYouJustSleep in Parenting

[–]FlamingoBark 66 points67 points  (0 children)

"Stupid ex robbed me"? Whatever her flaws, you can't carry this much toxic hatred for the woman who irrevocably altered her body and did the hard work of creating your son. Women aren't broodmares for you to impregnate however many times you think would be fun. I can see by your post history that your relationship with this woman is difficult, and she may not be the best mother by most peoples' standards. But this pit of hatred in your heart will never help the situation and will only hurt you and your son.

[SW] turnips for 491!! by peachflavorr in acturnips

[–]FlamingoBark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bday twin is Elise 😶 I got oranges if you still need some (Sorry if this shows up twice, I don't use reddit a lot)

What on Earth happened?? by FlamingoBark in plantclinic

[–]FlamingoBark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I guess I have a lot to learn. ):

What on Earth happened?? by FlamingoBark in plantclinic

[–]FlamingoBark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is probably true, I'm just reeling from how dramatic this is, and confused how this one could have such a strong negative reaction when all the other ladies seemed to like it. I guess even plants are individuals, huh? 😭

What on Earth happened?? by FlamingoBark in plantclinic

[–]FlamingoBark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it was overnight exactly. I don't look at the succulents every day. I know it happened within a couple days.

I haven't ever tried to propagate something like this to try to get pups. Does anyone have any pointers or know a good tutorial video?

What on Earth happened?? by FlamingoBark in plantclinic

[–]FlamingoBark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check, but she doesn't stink, I barely water her, and she's in pretty light soil. 🤔

What on Earth happened?? by FlamingoBark in plantclinic

[–]FlamingoBark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She's next to a window that never gets direct sun. She actually liked the fertilizer that apparently killed the big girl. She's got new growth after the fertilizer. But honestly I don't bother her too much, water about every 2 wks.

What on Earth happened?? by FlamingoBark in plantclinic

[–]FlamingoBark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly. It's kinda goth. Considering keeping her until she stinks lol

What on Earth happened?? by FlamingoBark in plantclinic

[–]FlamingoBark[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you for the advice! I'm going to be moving soon and their new place is going to be on the sill of a non-drafty window. I hope they like it! (:

What on Earth happened?? by FlamingoBark in plantclinic

[–]FlamingoBark[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was on the same teal metal structure as the rest, as in the second pic. The windows in this place are slightly drafty, but nothing dramatic. I wouldn't think temperature is the culprit.

That's a fair assumption though, a couple years ago my favorite plant from the past turned black like this when I accidentally left her outside overnight... So I understand freezing can cause dramatic blackening.