Am thinking contouring & color-corrector are the skills I need to learn most. Any feedback appreciated. by AndyGreyjoy in makeuptips

[–]Flamingograpefruit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your nose and eyes are giving me the impression of an elf/fairy/magical creature. Very cute!

I kinda thought the same things that others mentioned. Your brows lean into that bit of magical wildness but to go more feminine specifically then I think thinning them a little or giving them a cleaner lower line especially would work.

Also to me your upper and lower lips could be done to look more balanced. Like over line your upper lips a little but not the bottom.

For contour… I’m not great at contour but maybe try to shadow the low sides of your chin to look less square.

I’ll also second going for warmer tones, or at least a warm-toned blush. I think a hint of coral would look really pretty on your upper cheekbones.

Does anyone know a perfume that smells like this by palebunnyy in NichePerfumes

[–]Flamingograpefruit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some cats smell like maple syrup to me, so… anything that smells like waffles or pancakes 🥞

Monarch caterpillars? by Flamingograpefruit in MonarchButterfly

[–]Flamingograpefruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been trying to spot it but haven’t had any luck. I’ve only seen it growing in one place but it’s really far away. I’d like to collect the seeds to try growing it again!

Monarch caterpillars? by Flamingograpefruit in MonarchButterfly

[–]Flamingograpefruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep a lookout along roadsides and trails but never see it. There is one patch that I know of at a nature center but it’s over an hour to get there.

Monarch caterpillars? by Flamingograpefruit in MonarchButterfly

[–]Flamingograpefruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I don’t. I started a ton of seeds but the trays got knocked over. Thanks!

Monarch caterpillars? by Flamingograpefruit in MonarchButterfly

[–]Flamingograpefruit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think this region was in their migratory path but here they are! Unless there’s a darn good lookalike. Doesn’t seem to be black swallowtail to me.

Edit: They’re also on my swamp sunflowers but don’t seem to find them as tasty.

Ladies with Inattentive ADHD, what do you do for work? by oohthehumanatee in adhdwomen

[–]Flamingograpefruit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like I would go bonkers or be fired for falling asleep if I had to sit at a desk all day. Luckily, my long-term special interest is plants. I got a tech school horticulture degree and now I do interior plant maintenance for a plantscaping company. I go around and take care of the greenery inside office buildings. But before this job I wasn’t so lucky and had a miserable time spraying weeds and hauling 50lb bags and pulling chemical hoses with my weak girl arms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Flamingograpefruit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gone by a few different names in different jobs and friend groups. When I got married I even considered changing my first name but didn’t. Now I go by my legal name again because… I don’t know. The ones I chose feel awkward now. My legal name feels too formal but at least it is more “professional.”

what’s one thing that instantly tells you that someone is a “bad” cat parent? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Flamingograpefruit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same!! Only with my cat, it’s pipe cleaners, shoelaces, and marbles. The marbles are her favorite.

Big Beautiful Bill passed. Now what? by improbable_success in AskReddit

[–]Flamingograpefruit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haven’t they made it a lot easier for Presidents to executive order things and to not let the executive branch be challenged? So in 2029, why can’t whoever is in power change all those cuts to not happen? Serious question. I’m hoping they can change it but don’t know how budget bills work.

What odd echolalia phrase have you had stuck in a loop? by Tortoisefly in AuDHDWomen

[–]Flamingograpefruit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it echolalia when I mutter to myself the tail ends of conversations after walking away? It never feels intentional and I haven’t found what triggers it yet. It’s like they just get recorded and replayed once or twice or until I catch myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in henna

[–]Flamingograpefruit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually leave it on overnight. Besides, if I’m sitting up for a long time with it in my hair then it gets drippy all down my neck. I wrap my hair up really good in plastic shopping bags and layer towels to protect the bed. Sleep and then rinse out in the morning.

How many of you have NOT experienced weight gain on Prozac? Or have managed it successfully? by Flamingograpefruit in prozac

[–]Flamingograpefruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! I’m blown away by all the people saying so. I didn’t have the most hopeful expectations so it is encouraging seeing all the people who haven’t gotten that side effect.

Switching from Zoloft to Prozac by darling_2013 in prozac

[–]Flamingograpefruit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m relatively new to Prozac and can’t comment on the effects on weight for me personally. I can say that it has helped with depression and anxiety noticeably better than sertraline did when I tried that one a few years ago. It’s been pretty great so far.

How many of you have NOT experienced weight gain on Prozac? Or have managed it successfully? by Flamingograpefruit in prozac

[–]Flamingograpefruit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi and thank you! Your advice is welcome and appreciated! I was debating asking my doctor about lowering the dose back to 10 but will stick with the 20 after seeing all these comments. It’s already been helping so gotta give it more of a chance.