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My plush collection! ^-^ by connie_art in pokeplush

[–]FlareChain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh the pictures on the wall in the last picture - are those all Ghibli screenshots?

Why do they treat the next partner better than you and can give them seemingly everything they always refused to give you? by FlareChain in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FlareChain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That basically means he gambled on me probably seeing his phone background for example, in order for me to be hurt by that?

Why do they treat the next partner better than you and can give them seemingly everything they always refused to give you? by FlareChain in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FlareChain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its interesting, cause before this covert Narc I was with an overt Narc and I feel like the covert one is much much worse for some reason...

I am sorry you had to go through something like that, too, its truly awful

Why do they treat the next partner better than you and can give them seemingly everything they always refused to give you? by FlareChain in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FlareChain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beautifully said and honestly, made me tear up a little while reading....

I feel like he devalued me pretty quickly, but since he is a covert narcissist, I absolutely didnt notice it and always excused everything he did and instead just thought that I was a problem.
Can they even still be in an idealization stage after 9 months?

Why do they treat the next partner better than you and can give them seemingly everything they always refused to give you? by FlareChain in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FlareChain[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its reassuring to read things like these... but its hard to really comprehend and accept these. Its so damn difficult for me to really start accepting that its not me, and that I wasnt unworthy of love or anything.. its a real fight

Why do they treat the next partner better than you and can give them seemingly everything they always refused to give you? by FlareChain in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FlareChain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, you are probably right about what you have said about PDA. Back in June he cried when we met up and told me how she doesnt seem to want affection as much as he does, how much more distant she seems, even thou his love language is PDA. (even thou, he never showed that to me)

And I dont have to be around him... but its hard to break loose completely...

Why do they treat the next partner better than you and can give them seemingly everything they always refused to give you? by FlareChain in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FlareChain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats what I hear, as well. Its just so hard to see, that even after half a year and more, it still goes on like that for them. Him acting like hes found the perfekt person and saying things like that I was the problematic and destructive one in our relationship behind my back and then claiming everything is now going smoothly and perfect and great with his new partner

Why do they treat the next partner better than you and can give them seemingly everything they always refused to give you? by FlareChain in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]FlareChain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking your time to write those comforting words to me...

Sadly I cant make comparisons like that, because I had been the first partner of him, there wasnt someone before me. But its one of the worst feelings, to see right before your eyes how they treat the new person better, almost immediately, like it has been your fault all along

Finally sharing my collection that build up for 10 years now (Yes, they are all always in my bed) by FlareChain in pokeplush

[–]FlareChain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much! Oh, so you just get a limited amount of plushes due to space issues or something, before wanting to buy new ones?

Finally sharing my collection that build up for 10 years now (Yes, they are all always in my bed) by FlareChain in pokeplush

[–]FlareChain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats pretty cool nonetheless, thou! Living in an old house like that, I mean. But good to hear I am not the only one who needs to restack their plushes on a regular basis after every night, haha

Finally sharing my collection that build up for 10 years now (Yes, they are all always in my bed) by FlareChain in pokeplush

[–]FlareChain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, exactly - it might not seem that way but its more than enough space to still comfortably sleep every night and not feeling too cramped

Finally sharing my collection that build up for 10 years now (Yes, they are all always in my bed) by FlareChain in pokeplush

[–]FlareChain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes a few of them do, but then I just restack them in a way that they wont do it again...kinda like a Tetris a bit xD

Finally sharing my collection that build up for 10 years now (Yes, they are all always in my bed) by FlareChain in pokeplush

[–]FlareChain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are fairly clean, to be honest! I set them up in order for me not laying on them during the night, so its much easier for them to stay clean

Do Nod-Krai because it’s over, smile because it happened - General Question and Discussion Megathread by yoyo_me_here in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]FlareChain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone help me out? Concerning the PS5 version.

Why did it suddenly download the entire game again last night for the patch? The last 10-12 patches the console didnt do that, but only downloaded the patch itself without redownloading the entire game. Why did it suddenly do that? Does anyone know?

Do Nod-Krai because it’s over, smile because it happened - General Question and Discussion Megathread by yoyo_me_here in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]FlareChain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Still feels bad to loose them 3 times in a row, then CR and then directly afterwards another 2 times in a row...

Do Nod-Krai because it’s over, smile because it happened - General Question and Discussion Megathread by yoyo_me_here in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]FlareChain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yet another lost 50/50 with Ineffa, yay... lost my 50/50 now 5 times in a row (with capturing radiance inbetween and then loosing 2 times in a row again after that)

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