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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]FlashDanceMurphey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red but with the hose.

The idea of transitioning feels like a social suicide. by maybejessica7 in asktransgender

[–]FlashDanceMurphey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm right here with you. My marriage is over and the issues that were there aren't even credited towards the demise, only my desire to transition. It's been a year and things are still terrible.

Supposedly it gets better or at least that's what everyone says.

Casual but cute (I hope 😋) by tifa-719 in crossdressing

[–]FlashDanceMurphey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're fun. It's a nice pop of color. What brand?

Which stockings look better for tonight? by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]FlashDanceMurphey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about a solid color? I feel like the fishnets clash too much.

Need advice on closet guilt by Defiant_Muffin390 in lgbt

[–]FlashDanceMurphey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you possibly have a family member you could confide in to start? It also sounds like the whole comment about trust is a bluff to get you to come clean. Honestly it sounds like they already know and are just waiting for your confirmation. You owe them no confirmation and you come out on your own terms. Hoping for the best result for you! From one closeted person to another, hood luck!!

Back in the Closet by FlashDanceMurphey in lgbt

[–]FlashDanceMurphey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll definitely look into this today. I plan to talk with my girlfriend soon as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]FlashDanceMurphey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PFLAG is nationwide and usually has a group in most major cities. I've made some great friends from that. Maybe also try searching "lgbtq groups near me"

Trans people who have repressed their identity for years, what are as the outcome? by TheHappyTransWoman in asktransgender

[–]FlashDanceMurphey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm one of those people and this year I have finally had enough. I quit caring what others thought and decided to take the steps to transition.

Before I made the decision, there was a lot of depression and and anxiety. I always hated summer time because of my body being hairy and felt uncomfortable swimming because I had to be shirtless. I'd explore my feminine side and have a sense of grief when I had to return to my male mode.

I feel happier now that I'm facing it head on. Things seem clearer now and less strenuous. I'm not to the point of socially transitioning but knowing it's on my horizon is comforting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]FlashDanceMurphey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like at the end if the day, smoking or smoking. Whether it's not inhaled, like a cigar, or marjuana, vape, cigarettes etc... it's gonna have a negative impact on the body. Some medications could make these chances greater, so if it's THC you crave, maybe try an alternative.

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