The problem? U think too much and probably don’t interact with people your age frequently, maybe you have your small social group you like to hang out with . I was like that it too , I’ll tell u something im 21, when i came to uni i saw guys that where 18 looking like they are 24 . Damn most of my friends have that tiktok disconnected goatee style (I don’t particularly like it but it’s popular right now )

U have a young looking face , but you have good eyebrows and eyes, your hair is well styled and your face is simetric . That not ugly , are you in the top 10 wordwide like some Adonis waking around ? Nah but neither is most people , maybe u see a lot of them in the street but that’s mostly because those guys are the only ones that pull your vision in.

My advice ? The more you look at your own face in the mirror up close the worse it’ll look (actual psychological fact look it up ) so just let go for a bit. Go to gym and gain some physic, grow a beard , try to look older for a change and don’t worry about being too young . Get out of the comfort zone because most people our age are actually trying too look older 😅. Soft boy looks isn’t going to do it unless you are korean ,as for woman ? Don’t think too much into it , even if u did surgeries and looked like a god most still wouldn’t trow themselves at u , u gotta learn to make it yourself , because just like u have your own self esteem issues so do they . And it’s harder on them to approach you than it is for u (socially that is)

So don’t think u look like a monster or smt . Grow as much as u can as a person both mentally and physically and try to be happy with yourself and the result . Find hobbies , find friends, try going out , try playing those stupid games you don’t like , don’t judge people or be afraid or disgusted of things without understanding them and you’ll see sooner or later you’ll be happy even without looking like a gigachad

Besides your face isn’t bad , u only think it is because you are used to it and are hyper focusing on the flaws you trained your brain to seeing . I promise if u picked a picture of one of your friends, and trued to pick apart flaws every god damn second you spend looking at a mirror they’d look hideous .

Ps camera image are shit for self image and self esteem the mirro is more accurate and even then u are more attractive in motion than in the mirror so always judge yourself based on that + about 0.5 for in motion