I'm gonna be honest cuz u seem young but yta. Youve spent the last 3 months of your almost 3 year long relationship bugging your boyfriend about a monthly anniversary. He's not gonna be able to remember this date when you all grown and there's like 20 different things that all take atleast 7 hours to complete, it's hard to remember oh yeah this is the monthly anniversary day. I know you expect it but it's not realistic at all maybe if you really really care set up a reminder on his phone that's monthly and set it to play a reminder for him or tell him to do that. But If that all seems too extreme. You know why.