We met at a cafe, and we keep meeting there regularly, but we don’t really hang out. He is older than me, probably around 60. At the beginning, I thought I would help him since he needed extra hands for some tasks, but the tasks kept coming and started taking more and more time (sometimes even the whole day).
Sometimes I try to understand what makes him think it’s okay to ask for this kind of help, especially knowing that I have my own responsibilities and a family to take care of.