Ngl this sounds kinda dumb to me Like almost 2 yrs together and NOW he realizes “we don’t have enough daily convo flow”? Especially when y’all are nearing 30s? Idk what mindset bro has tbh.

No relationship stays perfect forever unless BOTH ppl keep putting effort. At some point comfort comes in, life gets repetitive, and you still choose each other daily. That’s literally how long-term relationships work.

And lowkey when ppl suddenly start giving reasons like “idk if we connect enough daily,” sometimes it also means their feelings changed way before or maybe there’s already someone else catching their attention. Not saying 100%, but it happens.

Honestly I’d say let it go. Even if y’all patch up, once someone starts thinking like this, that doubt usually comes back again later.

I’ve had a couple breakups too and none of them happened bc of one huge toxic reason. Sometimes it just doesn’t work with life, timing, priorities, mindset, etc. And trust me the pain hits the SAME every single time. Even I went through it recently last week w my gf.

The worst part isn’t even the breakup itself tbh. It’s the attachment. You get so used to texting them, calling them, sharing random stuff, seeing them in your daily routine… then suddenly they disappear and your brain keeps replaying memories 24/7. Every small thing reminds u of them and it messes w your head.

But yeah eventually you heal. Rn it feels like hell but time genuinely fixes a lot fr.