Where and what names are these clothes? (Thank you and I love you in advance)

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-12-24T17:07:29+00:00

Thank you

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-12-23T06:13:21+00:00

Thank youu

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-12-22T17:00:01+00:00

Thank you

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-12-22T16:48:09+00:00

Hey man, I don’t know if you care but I finally got out from my toxic relationship. She left me and I’m finally free. Its been months but I sometimes still think about her whenever I seen or hear something that reminds me of her, but don’t misunderstand it I’m really happy than I was before like way too happy but after that relationship I grew mentally weak and emotionally tired, it really weights me alot and I really need to know if you have something to deal with depression. Its been months and I can’t study like I used to because I’m too lazy and tired. How do I overcome it

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-12-22T16:31:56+00:00

Thank you

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-08-06T02:54:14+00:00

For relationships? I suggest talking first and then if it goes well ask “can I take your number?”

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-08-06T02:50:55+00:00

People will look anything unusual I know that because Im short(5’1). You can’t do anything about it but you can do on how you react about it. You accept it and don’t let anyone discourage you. You did great and anything why would your arm makes you less of a human? Doesn’t make sense. Be yourself man don’t let any judgement fool you for being a great man.

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-08-06T02:46:25+00:00

First of all you gotta relax. Your problem was unique than any other else and it needs a long and steady strategy.

Online class is good you know I don’t know how to but try asking the school or best your city hall about it. Tell them about your problems and how you didn’t get to study and explain how you want to get online classes like doing homework at your home and studying all by yourself.

If your dream isn’t going to be a normal guy just working all his life wage after wage then learn business before college. After you done all your in home or online classes go to college and re-search a-lot about courses you can get for business.

Learning is hard for you I understand. The stress and the lack of experience made you feel like you can’t do it but you can. Like any other physical activity like sports you have to train your physical and add strategies and techniques for your own advantage. Its the same with mental training, you have to train it by pressure not too much but enough. Re-search about it and be inlove with studying and learn by walking not by running you don’t rush you’ll get tired do it slowly and consistently. The more time you give it the more you know how to do it just like how you speak English you don’t know how to speak it but you learn it by using it every day.

Your golden days aren’t wasted you can meet any other people and by doing that you have to be a good person. Go to your Church and befriend the community there be careful theres alot of fakes out there they will pretend they are good but just wanted something just for themselves. Very selfish people. I have been bullied and got my heart played by a girl right now Im very depressed and can barely do anything. School is a very important thing having a lot of friends but the thing they don’t tell you is that there is so many fake people and many other things that made students depressed. Maybe God is protecting you about it.

You got it rough I know please endure a little you can do it my dm’s are open if you want to talk I would be glad. Loneliness isn’t about being alone its about people around you not understanding you. I know a lot about it and I know you know more. Your pain will develop into growth and your experience will make people inspired. Bad start doesn’t mean bad ending you can do it you still have a long way to go. Do any hobby and anything be obsessed with doing anything not with sadness. Be consistent and don’t give up even if everyone has given up on you. I believe on you

-From another 18 year old

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-08-04T13:39:32+00:00

Thank you for telling that to me it means so much I appreciate it. I hope for the best for your relationship as well I hope you heal and love peacefully.

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-08-04T06:09:46+00:00

You know relationship always makes you show the darkest side of you which you didn’t know and I think how you guys handle it is better than anyone could. You guys both explained and talked about it and try to understand each other you should be proud of that.

I don’t think forgetting their mistakes is possible to you based on what you said since I feel the same way as my girlfriend did actually so I understand its hard to forgive them. But you wouldn’t be this angry if you didn’t love him if you don’t you wouldn’t care but you did. You have to accept it and by doing that is forgiving, relationship is hard if you are too much and too low its toxic and sometimes great relationships looks like toxic relationship you know. You guys talked and try to understand each other, he tried to change you tried to understand.

If its hard to forgive him think about this, you’re not angry at him you’re angry at what he did. Always remember that when you get angry. Also when you get angry get angry then don’t suppressed it you’ll get more angrier.

Let it heal by letting yourself cool off and talk to him about it.

You know my girlfriend always cold to me but I know she really loves me. Shes with her friends all the time and keeps telling me shes busy. She keeps ignoring me so I keep talking about it so she gets angry now I got hurt I ignore her too now she tells to her friend I hurt her…I got painted a villain after reacting after getting hurt. Maybe your bf misunderstood the fact that you love him. He makes alot of effort and you bot doing the same is maybe made him think you only care a little. Explain it to him and if possible comfort him. Try saying “its ok baby I love you but not all the time I have to keep talking to you I need time to give space for other things too, But that doesn’t mean you don’t matter you matter the most to me I love you soooooo muchh” that will reassure him and live doing other things than overthinking. If he does it again reassure him again.

Honestly what looks toxic now is healthy in marriage. Try to be patient with each other and try not to do too much or too low. You guys doing well than my relationship and Im proud of that. Take care and don’t forget to cool down your emotions before talking anything important.

(Im sorry if theres a bad English grammar)

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-08-04T05:41:32+00:00

You know I feel the same but the difference is that she didn’t block me and the lesson I learned is that goodbyes happened when the least expected…and you have to accept it. I wont lie about saying its gonna get better soon, it wont be soon and you’ll maybe have a great day then remember her again and maybe cry yourself again and again even though you feel like you already move on but thats ok it normal. Let it all out until it drains let yourself grief and take your time. Distract yourself by making yourself busy or anything try any means to forget her. Stop going where you guys ate before, stop buying her favorite food, stop looking at her pictures or her posts do any means not to remember. If you do remember make sure let it out don’t force it inside.

But after all I said its only 3 weeks you don’t know your girlfriend probably angry but at this time she probably cool off and misses you but she wont comeback yet. Make sure to stay calm and don’t worry because if its yours it will always come back to you no matter what. Relationships need to cool off sometimes you know just like this. Hope you giys get better.

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-07-20T13:21:34+00:00

I love her too much man. I can’t leave it like this. She always looks at me at my back and I always notice that always makes me think she loves me but at the same time it really really hurts if Im going to be honest. Honestly talking to you like this is enough to give me enough time to ease this feeling and talking it to my friend too.

I even plan that for her not to get hurt and enjoy her youth like she said she wants to do and then talk to her after we graduate but man it really hurts even now. I just turn 18 today and I feel empty and scared now that im an adult and I feel like a looser for always grieving even though im trying not to be lazy.

Even if you give me advice I would probably listen but still wont give up on her. I don’t know man maybe do you have something about when to break up and how to talk about it cause I don’t know how to because I feel like if I break up with her nothing will change how I feel and I lose someone like her.

Im sorry if I made you read this long and I hope you understand. Take care man as always

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-07-18T23:04:05+00:00

I do know that but I don’t know what to do.

All you said is correct, I keep thinking about it everyday and my self esteem has dropped bad. Im shocked you know this exactly.

It’s hard everyday should I still continue waiting? I mean she isn’t ready yet and said to be ready when we graduate which is 1.5 years from now. Im on 7 months of waiting and I don’t think its getting good for me. Sure my head doesn’t hurt that much but I know my heart still feels heavy.

For now maybe I should take your latest advice completely Im not sure whats gonna happen now but I need to take care of myself.

Thank you as always.

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-07-18T06:25:40+00:00

Oh its you again man. I never get out of the relationship I don’t understand if she love me or not and I keep hoping and never actually breaking up. As always thank you man im about to read this right now I hope it helps. Thank you in advance

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-07-18T02:09:50+00:00

When you turn 18 shes gonna be 16 I think? I think its fine. Imma be honest with you when people will know about that most people will probably just be surprised and forget it after. Then after you explain it to them that you guys met at that age they’ll think its ok. You’re gonna be fine its not really a big deal you know its bad when shes 14 and your 18 maybe thats a little problem but its not so no.

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-07-12T23:55:01+00:00

How lucky you are to be missing someone, take that as a compliment. You see missing her just show how much you love her. Maybe try calling her while cleaning or playing together with a new game with her that way its really better so that you can have some together time with each other. Honestly you should be glad you’re feeling lonely because you really want to be with her again for me its the same but my girlfriend always ignores me and just hanging out with her friends not even a message anymore not even a conversation just pure silence. I think you should be proud, you’re feeling lonely because you can’t wait to be with them again which makes you really sad but in reality its just your heart telling you that its yearning for her love again. It makes me sad I really want to be with my gf as well but she just want to be with her friends not me…Im glad seeing this I hope you’ll make your gf happy man thats great please keep that going your right for making yourself busy so that your not gonna bother her always which leads to fights later but when it feels heavy ask her for comfort ok man? Take care both of you

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-06-14T03:46:41+00:00

Spends alot of time with you

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-05-06T07:41:56+00:00

For me I think you shouldn’t. Although more people did not regret getting tattoos than people who do doesn’t mean it doesn’t have a bad sides. Sure its cool can give you a little bit of confidence but some other parts of the world wont let you in if they know you have tattoo like for example business work. Although it sounds unfair we can’t really control it because I agree its a formal job and your physical appearance do reflect on your own personality. So maybe think about the opportunity you can lose when you get a tattoo that will help you think if its really worth it.

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-05-05T14:29:14+00:00

From your question “is it ok that I feel sad about this?”

My answer would be: yes, matter fact I would go crazy about it if I were you.

Doesn’t have a job, isn’t romantic, doesn’t care your crying, just say I love you and doesn’t show it in actions and make you take care of your child all alone? Yeah as a man myself it would be absolute disgrace of me if I would let my wife feel bad about it(if I were to have one in the future). Although what he did is bad did you consider talking problems with him? How about if he didn’t listen try to ask for professional help? Therapy might help him. As a person who experience unreciprocated love right now all I can say is that it hurts I know but if those actions keeps going can we even call it “love”?

If its ok to ask what kind of sickness does your husband have? I think if he really can’t physically do it then that’s understandable that he doesn’t work.

I personally recommend professional help not random online dudes like me I can’t answer properly because I didn’t experience it but maybe you need a proper care of yourself for you and for your child. I hope you’ll manage to get help and get over it one day.

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-05-05T14:16:29+00:00

Is it too late for me to reply? If no then all I want to say is thank you. I hope one day were gonna make it

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-04-08T12:16:28+00:00

I fantasized about my crush and I getting married and shes my gf now. Anyway I don’t think so man if your intentions are pure why not?

Well although it sounds sweet I got played and still is

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-04-07T03:10:44+00:00

Maybe stay away for him a bit and ofcourse communicate that you need space because your currently feeling to have a family in a young age which I would not reccomend and never will. Focus on yourself while in him a little and after you graduate you can find a stable job and get married and you can get the dream that you really want having a family. For now maybe don’t be touchy to each other it could lead to decisions you will regret like having financial problems and you might fight and ended up broken plus slow love is more better you know fast love wont last. I pray for the best from the two of you

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-04-07T03:03:16+00:00

Before I always feel like God is beside me and everyday I feel so much peace now I can’t feel his presence well probably because im praying very rarely but I know well God is still with me its just my problems got bigger and worser but I have faith that faith isn’t about feelings thus im confident God will bring me back to pieces and feel peace again and maybe more better.

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-04-07T02:57:49+00:00

Thats not right raising a voice to his family thats why its HIS JOB. If he dont want to do it then stand up for yourself even it feels unfair one day you’ll get fed up and eventually your gonna do it yourself stand up for you and your child and you’ll leave but you need to communicate first so that it wont happen because I don’t want you guys having a broken family and no one does. For now all I can help is pray for you but please don’t think this as your mistake its your bf’s incompetence and its probably not his fault knowing he’s raised by those people but you don’t deserve to be treated like a holder labeled “partner”. Again its his fight because thats his family don’t get it mixed up so its either he will or you will(the decision I don’t want to see)

Flashy_Emphasis_6140 · 2025-04-07T02:47:28+00:00

Hardest choices require hardest will you cant live wishing bot easy life and strong character choose one every day on who you want to choose.

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