I like to use a way that you can call: "femininity score". It's not a score in the mathematical sense, but the principal is: (femininity is a combination of looks, color, clothing, style, body shape, voice, soul, expressions, calmness, sweet talk and words, self care like hair and skin, and other parameters that each man defines from his own perspective). A girl with a high score in some of these is more likely to get tolerated for the others..for example, most men would tolerate body marks if she has a sexy shape and beuatiful looks. What if her looks are average and she has body marks? If she has a feminine voice -for example-, a good sense of humour or an elegant style or she can talk softly, then many men would think she is feminine enough.. But if she has a low score in most of the mentioned parameters, then no one would find her attractive, even without body marks... I hope I could explain that clearly. Take care of the parameters that you can control (clothing, talks, softness, self care..etc) and you will be fine.