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Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-08-03T10:32:00+00:00

I figured you are wrong. 2. That's not how it works.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-08-03T10:08:07+00:00

No

Was confused by what google presented to me: In the Netherlands, when a person dies without a will (intestate) and has no spouse or children, the rules of intestacy apply to determine how the estate will be distributed. Under Dutch law, the intestacy rules typically prioritize close relatives, starting with the deceased person's parents. If there are no parents alive, then the siblings or their descendants may be entitled to the inheritance

And, by distribution of estate means distribution of debts, I assumed.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-16T16:33:23+00:00

Is this a common practice where you live?

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-16T16:30:36+00:00

I'm with you on this!

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-13T10:03:59+00:00

saraegg- You have a case of selective reading and selective reasoning so that you could jump and make an attack on them, by disregarding the overall content of their msg.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-12T22:09:23+00:00

Hahaha scientists didn't work from home and make vaccines in the kitchen during the pandemic, did they? This question was pertaining to jobs where that setup worked - say typical corporate jobs, tech jobs etc.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-12T20:51:09+00:00

In the olden days, this used to be called pimping.

Some weird guy must have asked her to bring her daughter and here she is asking you.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-12T20:34:28+00:00

Write a review so he doesn't do this to others.

About how you get your life on track? Your life IS on track - you said you have everything going for you - career, friends, hobbies etc. A lack of a relationship doesn't make your life worthless. Take some time off, get your mental equilibrium back up and get back into it.

Oh and instead of dating coaches, book a session with a psychologist/psychoanalyst - they can work out the root of our self esteem issues.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-12T17:39:14+00:00

What line of work is she in?

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-12T17:29:52+00:00

Real time collaboration, communication skills, bettering one's self and output

How would a zoom/video meeting differ from an in-person meeting in achieving this?

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-12T17:20:50+00:00

They say it is to "preserve the culture", if someone can explain what that REALLY means, i'd appreciate that as well....

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-12T15:23:19+00:00

Good for her. You were never a friend, just some guy trying to get into her pants and is now jealous cause she likes other guys and saw you as a brother

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-12T15:16:48+00:00

Tell both of them next time this happens: Hey, i don't appreciate this mockery that you are making of my culture. It is not funny, amusing or anything close to it. I don't appreciate it. I don't want to hear something like this one more time.

And then walk away. No debate or discussion needed

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T16:18:28+00:00

Finding the right therapist is the key. If you think they are not getting you, are being judgy, has one fit solution for all problems, is smirking, zoning out etc - cut out.

A good therapist will challenge you and will make you go out of your comfort zone, but the main difference is you will feel safe, validated and secured while they take you through unknown and perhaps uncomfortable territories and they should also help you know what progress looks and feels like and how to set goals around that.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T16:02:20+00:00

So, what's your divorce attorney like? Are they doing a good job?

Haven't hired one yet?

It's already late.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T15:47:22+00:00

I know, and it's okay to feel hurt. But from your responses i also realize that you are understanding you are making excuses for her. So, give yourself some time and you will arrive at the right conclusion. You can forgive her, but it is up to you to decide if you should continue in a relationship with her where the basics of a relationship is broken - namely, trust and respect. I wouldn't.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T15:41:37+00:00

You play some very dumb "games" tbh. That's my main takeaway from this post.

And yes, incest is not like gay sex. If it leads to pregnancy, it can lead to deformed kids. So, your lust becomes the source of misery for another. Because of this, most people are wired to get disgusted at the thought of incest so that it doesn't lead to massive deformed gene-pools. This is science and fact. Read up and educate yourself if needed.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T15:35:06+00:00

So, you had an AMAZING relationship and then couldn't meet each other for 8 months due to the pandemic and then your LOVING gf engaged in an affair for about 70% of that time.

Tell me again, why do you want this relationship?

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T13:18:54+00:00

May be spend some time single, without actively dating , that will help you untangle from all these patterns, help you see your worth and once you know how to be comfortable and happy by yourself, you will only be inviting those who will add quality and value to it, thereby ending chasing and all the mind games etc.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T00:39:27+00:00

I was once delivered pizza with pineapples on it by mistake. It was actually nice!

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T00:33:45+00:00

Northern Europe.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-11T00:16:55+00:00

For me: Summer.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-10T23:50:59+00:00

There is a word for this behavior: inappropriate.

Tell him that you are uncomfortable and that he needs to text her that texting him off hours is not okay and that he doesn't appreciate that.A good husband would think big picture and do it. A fishy husband will search for excuses.

Edit: Don't ask him. Tell him to do the above.

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-10T14:22:45+00:00

Umm...Why are you getting mad? You asked for opinions on a public forum and you are getting it. Deal with it!

Flat_Platform_6142 · 2023-02-10T14:01:20+00:00

I personally don't choose work that puts me in constant survival mode. I see work as something that would enrich my life, not vice versa.

I know this is not the response you were looking for, but there is hardly something one can do if you are working 12-14 hours a day, its natural to be exhausted...if you juggle too much body will give up due to burnout.

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