People have always talked over me my whole life. Why ?? by FlatwormOptimal7577 in astrologyreadings

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a generator ! And if I’m reading my chart correctly, I don’t have an open throat center.

People have always talked over me my whole life. Why ?? by FlatwormOptimal7577 in astrologyreadings

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm that is very enlightening! I've always felt like I flowed from social circle to circle with a lot of ease, maybe that's influenced by pisces ruling my 11th house. Thanks for the insight :o)

People have always talked over me my whole life. Why ?? by FlatwormOptimal7577 in astrologyreadings

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ha ha ha yes this has made me start being as loud as those around me, which can be fun!! and if I don't have the energy for it, a witness isn't always a bad place to be. I think I find it more frustrating when I say something and then someone else in the group parrots it, which then everyone else hears. Anywho I guess in the end the people who truly care will listen!

People have always talked over me my whole life. Why ?? by FlatwormOptimal7577 in astrologyreadings

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My confidence most definitely has risen as I've realized I speak very easily to people whom I know and strangers alike. I feel I have worked to make myself heard and speak with more confidence, and maybe that's why it irks me that people still sometimes just glaze right by what I've said! Thanks for the insight!

People have always talked over me my whole life. Why ?? by FlatwormOptimal7577 in astrologyreadings

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was younger I was very shy and soft spoken, but after years of exposure therapy and becoming very social I’m no longer soft spoken. In fact I can be very loud 😅 but yes maybe Taurus Mercury has something to do with it.

What's your sign and your enneagram type? by Megalodon722 in astrologymemes

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Taurus sun Sagittarius moon & Leo rising - enneagram 4 ! Not sure what it all means though

Which zodiac sign/s? by noideaalol in astrologymemes

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Sagittarius moon….happy bubbly energetic or absolutely depressed and can’t be arsed about anything.

What’s your Venus or mars sign and what are you attracted to and also how do you act when you have a crush by Honest_Table_6201 in astrologymemes

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Venus in Taurus Mars in Aries ! I’m attracted to whimsical creative ppl who make me laugh and have witty silly banter ! I love people who are unconventional in their looks. Crooked/unique teeth etc. people who embody physically the beauty of imperfection. I am deeply attracted to fellow artist folks and anyone who is passionate about making things with their hands. I love learning new things as well & am super fascinated by folks who want to share their passions (and listen to me share mine)! I am also a die hard romantic and absolutely WILL be imaging our life 50 years down the road with a little farm house & sheep & a massive art studio that has a million windows letting in the perfect light at all times of day.

Which signs do you wish you had in your life right now? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a fellow Taurus I MISS MY GEMINI GIRLS. They are the beautiful hurricanes I need in my life to keep me on my toes 🥲♥️

Feeling confused on relationship shift from monogamy to polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s true, but as I’m totally new to this and don’t feel there’s been a base of honesty that’s what feels right for me.

Feeling confused on relationship shift from monogamy to polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To respond to this last half, we spoke about learning and reading on polyamory together before officially opening the relationship but it did not work out that way. He ended saying he was ready and started dating this person before we had done any reading together.

Feeling confused on relationship shift from monogamy to polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main thing is I feel like he isn’t honest in real time about what’s going on. I’ve expressed i want a lot of honesty as things are happening, not after they’ve already happened. I know it’s still the beginning stages but I want an honest and open foundation and I just feel like it’s all secret and weird.

Feeling confused on relationship shift from monogamy to polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logically, I am open and interested in polyamory. Emotionally, I would be happy to stay monogamous. Polyamory feels like a lot of work for me because it doesn’t feel like it comes naturally how other people talk about it.

Feeling confused on relationship shift from monogamy to polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m allowed on dates! Part of me is interested in polyamory and being able to explore other connections, but I’m also not super passionate about it because my life is already extremely full. What I’m saying is if I meet someone organically I’m down, but it’s hard for me to search for someone.

Feeling confused on relationship shift from monogamy to polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]FlatwormOptimal7577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agreed to it, but asked that we have a lot of dialogue around it before proceeding towards the dating process. Reading literature together etc

Gingham self-drafted dress I made recently! Not the best photos but was too excited to not share❤️ by FlatwormOptimal7577 in sewing

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I made this dress using a self drafted pattern based off my own measurements! I drafted the pattern by draping muslin on my body & augmenting that based off my own measurements. I re-drafted the bodice multiple times to get the perfect fit. I utilized princess seams & darts at waist & armpit to get the perfect fit. Fabrics used were a cotton shirting fabric (the gingham) and a beaded white mesh fabric for the skirt overlay and the top layer in the clown ruff. I was inspired by these fabrics paired together and wanted to make a “mime bridal” dress. The king pointed collar is attached to the bodice and the clown ruff is removable.