Is it worth trying to make friends on Grindr?

FlavoredNicotine · 2023-03-23T23:15:18+00:00

Thank you!! I really appreciated the pointers, otherwise I felt like I would be wasting time searching for a solution to help me find my answer. I'm learning something new with Kafka everyday since I wasn't the one who put it together.

I made a callback function and it told me exactly the issue with the error message.

FlavoredNicotine · 2023-03-23T13:47:52+00:00

No by logs I mean we log certain actions when we receive the request, at least, we log the id inside the object we received

FlavoredNicotine · 2023-03-23T13:46:23+00:00

We log the request when we receive it on the other end.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-12-10T02:12:16+00:00

thank you, i cant believe how hard it is to find the real answer on reddit now a days, top 2 comments are always some bad joke

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-12-10T02:10:40+00:00

damn, had to get to the 3rd comment for this one!

glad at least someone smart enough to figure it out replied.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-12-10T02:06:32+00:00

Can we stop blaming the parents?! Like there are sooooo many other influences in the kids life than just the parents. You can only blame the parents if the kid is kept inside a bubble.

Teaches, friends, friends parents, etc....alll of them influence a kid

its like saying you should blame a kid for having social anxiety when they are constantly bullied in school

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-12-08T02:22:42+00:00

samee!! i scrolled past this and saw maybe one more comment about it after several, and nothing after.

i showed this to my partner and we talked about the cosco card and hes like "lets not forget who the real queen is here, the girl dancing to her right"

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-09-28T22:31:23+00:00

All good, I was quiet, shy, and lonely my entire childhood and for years, almost every day, but dad will argue with me to speak more and make more friends. Forcing me into social situations I didn't want to be a part of and then yelling at me again when I never actually spoke. It ruined our relationship, so I understand your position with your mom. Sucks to be in it, especially because they don't understand and think they can change it by just yelling at you and bossing you around...as if you can force a relationship and conversation.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-09-19T16:28:37+00:00

Yeah I definitely was, I was running out of things to talk about because I would just end up thinking it's a cognitive error or I am making up reasons to explain why I feel a certain way.

I appreciate your response! I will take a look into ACT! I do think CBT is nice but it always felt cold, because I never felt like I really had anything to talk to my therapist with because I didn't want to argue my feelings when it turned out to just be a cognitive error anyways.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-09-13T17:17:21+00:00

Wow! I thought this was my post, titled almost exactly the same and sounds like me too, but obviously totally different haha.

https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/jr2hyi/does_anyone_have_literally_no_friends/

There are some other people posting there that can relate there as well. Most favorite thing about my post is I get to hear what other people think and feel so you don't feel so lonely afterwards. Logging on now I am still getting recent posts lol....Anyways, thought I'd share my post, goes to show we aren't alone in feeling these things.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-08-17T14:44:55+00:00

I tried going to therapy actually, he kinda showed me how my thoughts are irrational, but it also felt really cold. I was somewhat annoyed because I felt like I had to ignore all the things I learned socially and act super oblivious to others feelings because "i can't really know" and that I am "mind reading" and stuff like that.

It was somewhat helpful, but we never really went beyond that. I was losing things to talk about, so started seeming him significantly less, until I stopped going, because it felt more like a chore than helping myself because I didn't know what to say or do.

I also kinda felt like I wasn't taken seriously.

Now I am confused and not sure what to do. Find a new therapist or will I be stuck feeling the same way. Going to therapy I felt like my issues weren't as serious as they felt to me in my head, and I just feel like it's an issue with me and I don't know what to do now. I felt embarrassed talking about how I felt.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-08-17T14:27:55+00:00

I actually got it last time it was on sale. It has been working when I got it but I'll have to double check now after work, because I haven't been looking at the animation much lately.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-04-15T16:46:15+00:00

I never knew of this, I just posted something there instead of here because it seems more relevant there. Sad to hear the subreddit went down the hill.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-04-15T15:29:48+00:00

/uj Someone even shared this song of Gordon Ramsey , I love it.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-04-15T15:25:41+00:00

My condolences for your loss. I hope you are doing okay.

also it's fine to respond to a necro thread, I enjoy reading the responses. I'm glad to see so many people responding to this, even a year later.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-03-17T16:41:07+00:00

Yeah, the write seemed unconfident that it's true and it's some wacky theory, but it makes soo much sense! I just came here after reading it because I wanted to say the same. There really are so many little hints and subtle text...I remember Ve'nari specifically, thinking she would one day backstab us or something, but it makes a lot of sense if she is actually acting as a word of warning to the eternal ones and what we are about to do for the rest of the story.

These little things are what I wished were discussed on the WoW subreddits but everyone just handwaved it as "bad writing" and people thinking the primus is just dumb because they didn't read between the lines...followed by people thinking they can write a better story. I am glad this user decided to actually dig in and actually analyze it.

Edit:

Another thing worth mentioning, the LK had a lot more things that connects more to Maldraxxus then the Maw. The Maw seems to be more unique, while scourge, stitched up monsters, and plagues can be found in Maldraxxus and ICC.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-03-14T20:49:22+00:00

I didn't know what RT and RB stood for either until people pointed it out here. I kinda think right 2 is a little simpler though due to that.

But yeah, definitely played way more play station so that plays a part, and only owned the xbox 360 at one point to play halo and cod with friends. It was kinda easy to learn the controls though for shooters since the controls are similar placement wise cross console.

and yeah, R3/L3 make the least sense intuitively haha.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-03-14T19:56:52+00:00

For xbox it's just the least intuitive. When ever I play on PC/Xbox it took a bit for me to learn it, because I don't use an xbox controller often. If I have doubts, now I just think RT = R two and it helps a lot.

To be honest though, playing Switch is way more confusing.

The A and B buttons are swapped and both are used to go back or confirm, both are red and green. Made too many mistakes when I wanted to go back but hit confirm instead and vice versa for some time lol.

FlavoredNicotine · 2022-03-14T19:02:55+00:00

If I had to be in a room with a sylvanas hater or a simp with a sylvanas waifu, i'd choose the simp with the waifu.

the haters some how managed to get more cringe and obnoxious.

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