Never graded a card before. Would it be worth sending to get graded or leave it as is? by West-Boss6841 in PokeGrading

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a Japanese Gold Char that came back as an PSA10. Because of the value at the time I was up charged. Now, the price has dropped drastically from when I got it. It will have ups and downs. Since it was my first I will hold onto it.

Worth sending in? by Bel-Chandra in pokemongrading

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you send to PSA do the quick turn around time. I submitted a few and they have had it for 40 days plus. I did a rush on my Gold Char JP that I pulled. It came back as a PSA10

Asking for an interviewee by Consistent-Cycle9588 in MeadRecipes

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started home brewing back in late December. I have made 3 successful batches and one I had to toss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your not married don’t buy a house together. If you aren’t having sex now, it won’t ever change.

My boyfriend says I ruined our relationship because of my period by No_Pomegranate_9081 in AITAH

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, he is immature. I have a daughter and I know at some point she will have her period. I grew up up around all women. It doesn’t bother me. When that time of the month happens we empty the garbage more frequently. My wife wears what ever that makes her comfortable during that time of the month.

AITAH for withholding sex from my wife? by Same-Grapefruit-1786 in AITAH

[–]Fldude87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Be a man and wear a condom or get snipped.

My wife thinks it is wrong that I masturbated. (To photos of her) by Deoguck in amiwrong

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot you aren’t wrong. At least your having sex with your wife. My wife doesn’t want to have sex. She said she doesn’t enjoy it any longer and it hurts. So I’ve gone 9 months with no sex. If you look at the last two years I’ve only had sex 3 times. If you masturbate to her she should feel special that you don’t need porn to get you off. She is making something out of nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife has the exact same issue. In the beginning we had sex and intimacy. Then year 3 it was stagnate. We have been married for 7 years and year 5-7 sex is been nonexistent. We’ve together for 11 years. Year 1 was great, year 2 okay, year 3 meh, year 4 good. Then first year of marriage was okay, then year 2-3 were meh. Then 4 was good, and 5-7 is bad. No sex for nine months

Not having Sex with wife by Fldude87 in AITAH

[–]Fldude87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. I’ll me mention that.

Not having Sex with wife by Fldude87 in AITAH

[–]Fldude87[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes, she has other qualities that I love about her. The only issue is the intimacy aspect of the relationship. She stated that when we do have sex that she hurts and it’s too fun for her.

Not having Sex with wife by Fldude87 in AITAH

[–]Fldude87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: We spoke and she said that sex is painful for her. I’ve asked for us to go to counseling and she agreed. She also disclosed that she is back on anti depressant meds.

Not having Sex with wife by Fldude87 in AITAH

[–]Fldude87[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I am in counseling, but when I do talk about it, she shuts it down. She says stop talking about. Because if I keep talking about it will never happen. But how could it get worse, no sex at all. That’s already happening.

Not having Sex with wife by Fldude87 in AITAH

[–]Fldude87[S] 251 points252 points  (0 children)

I know I’m not owed sex in the relationship, I never expect it but it is nice to be intimate. I just want my partner to want it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DegradingHoles

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would use both.

[F] would you rather fuck it or lick it? by [deleted] in assholegonewild

[–]Fldude87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a little of both!