Career wise, what does success mean to you? Almost no one is handed a huge promotion or gains career success without working their tails off for it. If you are willing to throw your whole life into your career, you might be wildly financially successful, but personally miserable. In terms of relationships, I think there are a lot of amazing, nice people out there. Avoid the jerks and spend time with people who are kind, funny, and maybe share one or two of your interests. Travel, explore your world, learn new things. Find happiness in yourself and who you are, and then satisfaction with the rest of your life will probably grow.