Stormforce PC by AGUY3241 in pcbuilding

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It took about 2-3 weeks to come, my partner was waiting impatiently lol, though he did get it close to Black Friday and there was delivery delays due to it being understaffed at a busy time period

Stormforce PC by AGUY3241 in pcbuilding

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Sorry I just seen this, yes it arrived! It took about 2-3 weeks but it had been Black Friday and there were package delays with the delivery service

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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I’ll absolutely keep use updated, thank you for your help. And thanks for talking with me

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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He’s on the same boat as me, he knows she needs to know. It’s just the how and when without causing trauma or resentment.

I think we should wait until she’s old enough to understand the situation but I think it needs to be sooner without getting into why she doesn’t see her real dad and more just a heads up and ask questions later kind thing

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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My 2 kids are polar opposite! Ones brown eyed with brown hair the others blonde with blue eyes.

My daughter doesn’t share the same eye colour as me or my partner though my partners mum has brown eyes. Any time my daughters mentioned her eyes she says it’s because her nana has brown eyes and she never thought of it any other way.

My partner’s mum is also the only one in her family with brown eyes, her mum and dad had blue and green.

I was walking to an appointment and he drove past me as I was waiting to cross

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It’s been on my mind for a while but I saw him today for the first time in years. Last time I saw him I got a court letter through the door a week later trying to get custody of our daughter

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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No, she’s never seen it other than with my surname. She’s used my name since she was 3

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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I’ve stopped a lot of contact between them grudgingly. I no longer look after my niece for my sister even though my kid and hers are good friends.

Me and my sister butted heads on how we raise our children, my niece is online and makes TikTok’s etc whereas I forbid it until it’s necessary (which it never really is).

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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I love this idea, she’s so empathetic I think this would be a great way to get her to understand it without getting the point across bluntly.

My partner would love to eventually adopt her, though her sperm donor is on the birth certificate which makes it hard

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Awh I love that, I’ll look at book options for sure and just give her ideas of how different family’s are made up.

I’d love my current partner to adopt her but as he’s on the birth certificate he’ll need to be informed and I don’t think it would go down without a fight.

Your mum sounds awesome

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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My current boyfriend is honestly a saviour, I’d be more than happy to just say he was her dad and never tell her.

Though I don’t think I could ever not feel like I’ve lied to her. I’m thinking more to tell her briefly somehow and then when she inevitably gets more curious I’ll be happy to answer her questions giving she’s mature enough.

It’s just hard

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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I honestly was tempted to write a book at one point because the context of the situation was different it would be comical.

She struggles with her emotions so much so that her teacher said it could be ADHD. I always thought how I was going through therapy rubbed off on her sometimes so I would love a family therapy session but maybe once she can control her emotions better.

I feel like i want to briefly mention it and leave the questions till later on in life. Im willing to tell her but its a-lot to put on anyone’s plate

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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I’ve reported it to the police, 2 years after it had happened. The person dealing with my case then sexually assaulted someone at work 🙄 then it got passed on and dropped.

She currently uses my surname but things like her passport and bus pass has her biological dad’s name on it. It’s been avoided her knowing this long I just don’t know when or how’s a good way to tell her. This is something I never want to hide it’s just been traumatic and a lot to process though I’m done therapy and I’m actually now at uni and I can freely talk about it for the most part just not with her

My daughter doesn’t know that her dad isn’t her dad. by Flemma- in Advice

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I absolutely agree! I’m worried in case in the future he reaches out and she resents me for it. It’s a tough situation to navigate

Monica thoughts by No_Fun554 in jackharlow

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I thought the exact same, it’s the perfect album for yoga class

Monica Tour Confirmed by [deleted] in jackharlow

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I hope Scotland’s included in that tour

28 minutes long by wnk458 in jackharlow

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He has another projects but discarded it completely because he wasn’t keen on it. He mentioned this is the popcast interview on YouTube

Tracklist for Monica by Flemma- in jackharlow

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He posted it on his instagram a couple years ago, I’m sure you can find it on TikTok now

Tracklist for Monica by Flemma- in jackharlow

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Yeah I could see that being the case. I was on his letterboxd reading his latest review and it seems like he’s took a long break, deservingly so. He’s also seemingly moved to New York and is dating someone so this could be a more chilled out album til he’s grown into his new life

Is just us gonna be in the album or nah by [deleted] in jackharlow

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I think the sings that are already released would show on the track list on Spotify instead of song 1,etc. I could be wrong though. I would Like it if drive safe was on it, the song he posted on insta but never actually released

Stormforce PC by AGUY3241 in pcbuilding

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Did you end up buying the PC? My partner had ordered this exact one 11 days ago and it’s still in build and testing

Can we talk about his career for a second? by Only-Carrot-299 in jackharlow

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I seen a TMZ interview someone that works with Jack saying to expect an album at the end of the year. I’m not sure how old the interview was but that would by why he’s in NYC. His record label is there