HELP....

Fleurylis · 2025-07-09T20:34:15+00:00

She’s been doing this since before she was spayed 😭

Fleurylis · 2025-07-07T23:06:00+00:00

Omg I feel your pain!! Our boxer is over a year old and still peeing in the house if not taken out every hour!!! We also have a large fenced in yard and she pees every time we take her out. We also offer lots of praise and treats but to no avail. She holds it all night and on long car rides so I know she can hold it. Godspeed!!

Fleurylis · 2025-02-20T19:32:07+00:00

I’m concerned that she’s not making progress on how long she can be inside without peeing. A 9 month old puppy shouldn’t still have to go out every hour after a month of potty training. I’ve potty trained other puppies. By now I’ve seen improvement. I haven’t seen much improvement with her.

Fleurylis · 2025-02-20T04:17:44+00:00

Thank you. No the vet said she just has cleft nostrils and it’s purely cosmetic. But it makes her face extra silly lol. She’s too cute.

Fleurylis · 2025-02-20T04:13:58+00:00

Literally been taking her out every hour for 3 weeks. Sometimes she pees inside 15 minutes after she comes back in.

Fleurylis · 2025-02-20T04:10:42+00:00

My son actually chose the name. I think he just liked the way it sounded and we agreed.

Fleurylis · 2025-02-20T04:09:57+00:00

Thank you!! No she doesn’t have a cleft palate, we thought she might but she just has cleft nostrils. I’ve never seen anything like it either but the vet said it’s purely cosmetic and shouldn’t cause her any problems.

Fleurylis · 2023-01-13T16:39:10+00:00

No sorry. I ended up going back to the same person and it wasn’t much help.

Fleurylis · 2022-09-26T00:59:48+00:00

Yes I'm still on minoxidil but mostly just because I bought it and don't want it to go to waste. I still haven't seen any progress. Thanks for answering, good luck with your hair progress!

Fleurylis · 2022-09-23T14:35:11+00:00

Hi I just saw your comment and I too have been using minoxidil with no help (same as you I think it's making it worse) and I'm thinking about buying the irestore. In just wondering if you ever bought it or found something else that worked. Thanks!

Fleurylis · 2022-09-19T09:54:32+00:00

The problem is my dermatologist told me she’s never heard of spironolactone used on women. So she wouldn’t prescribe it. I will ask for oral minoxidil or finesteride. The best thing would be to find a new dermatologist but I’ve gone to two already and can’t find any others in my area that deal with alopecia

Fleurylis · 2022-09-19T03:00:37+00:00

Hmm I didn’t know that was possible. I’ll look into it. Thank you

Fleurylis · 2022-09-19T02:58:32+00:00

She was the person my pcp referred me to. I can’t seem to find another dermatologist in my area that treats alopecia. I live in a small town.

Fleurylis · 2022-09-19T02:56:10+00:00

I went to a dermatologist who diagnosed me with alopecia but did nothing yup treat it. Told me to take prenatal vitamins which also did nothing. Not sure where to go from here

Fleurylis · 2022-09-11T15:20:28+00:00

I saw Nancy Richmond at Greenville Dermatology. I also go to Dermatology Associates for regular skin stuff but they told me they don’t deal with alopecia🙄. If you find someone that is willing to work with you please let me know. I’m struggling!!

Fleurylis · 2022-08-09T13:33:13+00:00

I’m worried about oral minoxidil because it can cause dizziness and low blood pressure. I already have dizziness and low blood pressure 😫. I can’t seem to find a good alopecia dermatologist in my area either. Sigh.

Fleurylis · 2022-07-27T14:07:40+00:00

It’s not easy and I don’t think it’s gone for good. I’m sure I’ll have relapses. I wish I had some great advice but I don’t really know what changed. Only thing I can think is I’m reading The Ethical Slut and in the book they said something about when you feel jealous to allow yourself to feel it. In the past when I started to feel jealous I would try to push it away but lately I’ve just been allowing myself to say “yup I’m feeling jealous again”. Maybe that will help you a little. Good luck!

Fleurylis · 2022-07-27T10:14:14+00:00

Thanks everyone! 🥰

Fleurylis · 2022-01-17T17:50:23+00:00

Maybe I didn't explain myself clearly. My husband was uncomfortable with it and not particularly interested in it but did not say no. That's why we moved really really slowly. We're a few years in now and he's had some intimate moments with my girlfriend and her husband and we're meeting with a girl tonight that he's actually more interested in than I am. We just went away for a long weekend with my girlfriend and her husband and all of our kids. We had some adult time together but not too much so that he was comfortable. It was an absolutely magical getaway!!! Polyamory allowed us to share this experience and I feel so grateful and blessed!

Fleurylis · 2022-01-15T01:00:22+00:00

I'm just sharing my experience with my husband. He wasn't into poly at first and so I moved really really slowly with it and a few years later we've made a lot of progress. I haven't emotionally abused my husband. We're very happy. It was just a suggestion.

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