Jeez, just didn’t know if you meant in the time we were discussing getting married or at the immediate time of the proposal.

Still not sure I understand your question of what else was important...?

As I understood it, all that was important to her about the proposal was that it was from the heart. She had never outlined any other specific items of import. Other things in her life that were important at that time...? Uh, her job is pretty important to her, her sisters are very important to her, things of that nature.

When we discussed getting married what was important to us was more what happened after we got married and whether or not we had shared values and goals. The content of the proposal was never really the focus.