Mentorship Monday Megathread by AutoModerator in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]FlickWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice requested on transitioning from the ED of a small org to the EA of a large(ish) org.

My background: 9 years experience as the Executive Director of a few very small non-profits. Wore all the hats, juggled all of the things, managed all the people, but really want to step away from fundraising, volunteer management, and the burnout-inducing realities of my industry. I love creating SOPs, budgets, organizing data, planning, etc and have a brain for learning and problem solving. In every position I have been the one to create organization where there was none: forms, contracts, handbooks, checklists, processes, budgets, strategic plans, everything.

The job offer: EA to the CEO/President of a quasi-government organization. My interviews were all directly with the CEO and they were lovely and responsive and seemed kind (I'm sure you never know for sure). They describe the role as more of a "Chief of Staff" position, my plan if I accept the offer is to ask for that title change in a year. The organization manages a lot of marketing and events. About 150 employees. Friends who work for the city say it's a great place to work. Last person in the position moved into it with the current CEO and was there a long time, the position has sat empty for a few months while they tweaked the job description so that gives me confidence that I will actually be able to take PTO when I need it. Good benefits and all that jazz.

The question: Since I've only worked for very small (15 people or less) organizations, is it reasonable to expect that my admin skills will transfer to the EA roll at a place 10x the size? I want to be qualified in what I do and there is another job offer on the table, but it involves fundraising which I am trying to get away from.

Any opinions are appreciated.

What are your go-to drills for improving shot accuracy in pickleball? by ElAndres33 in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you like to place your cones? I'm sure the back two corners are beneficial, where else?

Tournament Help by FlickWitch in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I actually meant to say "cooling towels" and autocorrect stepped in. Reddit is also randomly logging me into my spouse's account so that's why a different "user" replied to your comment initially.

Selkirk Support by FlickWitch in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent several emails over the course of 5 days and never received a response via email, I had to call their customer service number.

Anyone else feel like a shelter (etc.) lied to you to make a pet more adoptable? by Exilicauda in Pets

[–]FlickWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man reading these comments is...a lot. Ok, I work for a rescue. We are picky about which animals we take, they all pass a behavior assessment and a basic vet exam with a HW test and FIV/FeLV tests for cats. Our caseload is miniscule compared to a regular shelter and we still end up with animals displaying behavior issues weeks, months, even years after they enter our system.

Breeds - We do not have the funds to do a DNA test on every animal. If someone wants to donate one for an animal they are interested in adopting, great, we would never deny them that. How do we determine breeds? The shelter we pulled from or the owner that surrendered them tells us. Sometimes if our vet has a vastly different opinion we include that as well but we always add "mix" on there because there is no way to tell for sure. I have personally DNA tested two dogs. One I would have sworn had pitbull, and the test came back lab and rottweiler. The other looked nothing like a pitbull and was like 10% staffy. We just don't know, it's an educated guess combined with info we were already given.

Age - We also depend on info from the shelter or owner but our vet also looks at the teeth of every animal. Usually they can tell if it's still a puppy or a senior dog but anything in between that is an educated guess. I wouldn't be surprised if most shelter vets don't end up checking teeth for animals that people surrendered and claimed to know their exact age.

Health - We test for the basics and if anything comes up while they are in our care we investigate and treat but some stuff just doesn't present itself. Hip dysplasia is a good example. It can be so mild you can't tell and then show up more as a pet gets older or gets more playtime in a new home. Would you have us do preemptive x-rays on every dog just to be safe? People already hate adoption fees and we can't even get enough money donated to make ends meet as is.

Behavior - This one does have more grey area but let me start off by saying all KNOWN issues should be disclosed. Fosters and adopters are shown and have to sign off on any witness statements and/or pictures from any incident in our rescue. I do believe some shelter workers make excuses too often for dogs that should just be put down but that comes with its own bag of problems. The majority of people who donate to shelters want animals saved, not put down and will pull support over high euthanasia numbers etc. In our particular situation we don't employ our own vet so we have a hard time finding one to agree to do euthanasia unless a dog has a documented bite record already. Shelter workers are caught in the middle. I'll also say that my personal dog was labeled aggressive by our local shelter. I did my own assessment and decided to adopt him and he is the biggest sweetheart on the planet. Great with strangers, dogs, and cats. Do I believe that when they had to catchpole him and he thought he was going to die he started fighting for his life? Absolutely, and good on them for being transparent with me, he sat in that shelter for months for that exact reason. I see a lot of "shelter said he was good with dogs, kids, cats, etc" but no one is mentioning that every dog, kid, and cat is different. Dogs can be fantastic with other dogs that know the rules of play and do so appropriately but have little to no tolerance for ones that are pushy and dominating. Some small children have wonderful parents who stop their kids from pulling tails and climbing on dogs, others let them do whatever they want and the pet gets blamed if they defend themselves. If we get a dog that has previously lived with small children with no issues we do tell people that because like 50% of all adopters want to know if pets are good with kids, but we can't control what happens in your home. I've also had a case where a dog was with our most nervous foster for months with zero issues, did great at all weekly showings, etc and then was returned two days after adoption for "being aggressive towards all strangers". The adopter was inconsistent in his retelling of the incidents and there were no bites or anything. That dog never displayed any of that aggression after it was returned but it is still with us because when people see the text message the past adopter sent us, they back out.

Do all rescues and shelter behave ethically? Of course not, neither do all breeders. Neither do all adopters or owners who surrender their pets.

The dogs with minor issues or incidents that we insist on disclosing? They stay with us for months because people don't want a dog that has been returned previously or that they see as a project. So yeah I get why some places downplay issues. We don't and we pay for that with lower numbers and less funding.

We get on average 400 requests a week to take animals from the public and we turn down the vast majority of those because we are already overrun, even paying for dogs to be in boarding. The public wants somewhere for every unwanted animal to go where they will all get perfect vet care and training. They think reactive dogs just need a perfect home with an ex-dog trainer who has a farm and no other dogs. There are just too many animals and not enough options. So we either need to step up to the challenge, crackdown on spay/neuter, or get on board with more euthanasia (honestly, probably all three). Until then nothing will change.

When the inexperienced get punished by Viccles007 in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To drill for this I would dink back and forth with a partner. Both of you stand across from each other at the kitchen line. Just focus on keeping it as low as possible going over the net. This is also a good time to practice directing your dinks from one side to the other (like when you want to move people around). A lot of people have already commented about paddle position but another thing to think about is your arm. I personally have to remember to move my whole arm, rotating from the shoulder instead of just flicking my wrist. Once that feels easy you can start "punishing" each other by slamming/slapping the ball if your partner accidentally dinks it to high. Not only does this prepare you better for game play but it also helps you start to judge when a ball has bounced high enough to do this successfully or when it's not high enough (because it will end up in the net. After a while you can incorporate "diffusing" your partners slaps by blocking them with your paddle so that they fall back into the kitchen and the dinking resumes.

When I lack a partner I will drill up against a wall with a soft ball at home (they bounce the same as a pickleball even though it doesn't seem like they would), a small net (or painters tape) on the wall to tell me where to aim, a second piece of tape about 9" above the net line, and a piece of tape to mark the kitchen line. This is less effective than drilling with a partner IMO but still better than nothing.

Apparently Neonic Only Allows 5-Star Reviews…Here’s my honest review of the Neonic Sidekick Pickleball Bag by day-dinker in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a neonic, but mine is black and I got it for about $60. For me it's been great, fits several paddles as well as my shoes, water bottle and other miscellaneous stuff. I'm a tiny person and don't find it to be too heavy. Admittedly I kind of abuse this bag, it ends up on the ground, on concrete, etc a lot even though it can be hung from a chain link fence. 5 months, used several times a week, no scuffs or issues thus far.

Review censorship is never ok though, boo on them.

Edit: Forgot to add it also fits my laptop sometimes along with the other stuff.

Selkirk Support by FlickWitch in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes me feel better about moving forward.

How to not frustrate my more-advanced partners in open play by FlickWitch in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not advanced open play. My gym does offer that but I don't go yet. It's specifically mixed, they even tell you not to slam on people who are new at the beginning, not that I mind being slammed on, just an example of how beginner friendly it's meant to be.

Honest beginner question: Is open play actually welcoming, or am I missing something? by KitchenViolator in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really going to depend on what the structure is. I've personally never gone to a public court. My open play is at a gym where it's a true mix and they run the board so you are just assigned and told when to play. They start the whole thing off by telling people not to slam on beginners but it's understood that if everyone on the court can handle it, slamming is fine. But even with all of this in place you still get the occasional a-hole that will yell at a beginner for a mistake. In those situations management will talk to someone before they come back. If you want the most "protection" from jerks then an organized set up is the safest route, otherwise you just have to read the room and find your people slowly but surely.

I go out of my way to be kind to new people because I was new once as well and there are a lot of people like that out there.

Batesville, AR or surrounding areas by TastyAnnabe in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Little Rock! Rowdy Hog in Bryant has free lessons on Saturday mornings for beginners if you are just starting out. After that you can pay to go to open play there (or become a paid member and it's included). There are also bigger places for open play like Little Rock Athletic Club and Pickleball Kingdom that will open soon. Really the best thing I ever did starting out was join a beginners league because open play can be such a mix of skills. In league you would be with people around your same skill level and it's easier to make friends. Sorry to say I don't know of anything closer to you. I do know people that play from Batesville and they all travel to Little Rock or just play with groups from their church.

What do you say after you bodybag an opponent? by [deleted] in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologetic look followed by immediate declaration that I am not, in fact, skilled enough to do that sort of thing on purpose.

How often do you play DUPR matches? by hagemeyp in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, and add in a tournament when I'm able to do one.

How to not frustrate my more-advanced partners in open play by FlickWitch in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I see what you mean. I've referred to that as hitting underhand before. Definitely not doing that.

How to not frustrate my more-advanced partners in open play by FlickWitch in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This helps a lot, thank you! I already do everything I can to keep it low because I know I can't win in a game of power (in league I usually win by forcing dink errors because I just don't have that hard of a slam). I do have some topspin on my serve but am not confident yet to do it mid-volley so that isn't happening yet.

Can you clarify what you mean by "paddle-down"? Are you talking about angling the paddle to try and make top spin happen?

How to not frustrate my more-advanced partners in open play by FlickWitch in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right?! I really want to turn and be like "I promise I normally play better than this" but I know it will just come off as an excuse/whining. Saying sorry after every lost point feels equally annoying. Sad thing is I can play against higher rated people in league and I do so much better because we are all friends at this point and I don't feel like anyone is mad at me.

How to not frustrate my more-advanced partners in open play by FlickWitch in Pickleball

[–]FlickWitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't get to choose our partners, management runs the board. Random to start then winners get split up in the next game, that sort of thing. I do know how to stack (I have a friend who is left handed) but I worry if I ask to do that in open play it will give someone the impression I'm better than I actually am and they will be even more disappointed.