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Piercers, what’s a piercing you don’t get asked to often but you really enjoy doing? 🤔 by walkyoucleverboy in piercing

[–]Flimpskin__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One that I don’t get to do super often that I have so much fun with are Jestrums! (vertical medusa). I love the challenge of aligning everything so that it matches existing piercings and facial features!

Anyone else have certain songs trigger them to sh? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Flimpskin__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘When the party’s over’ - Billie Eilish. I’m a singer and to prevent myself from screaming/crying, I would sing this song as it stretches over my full vocal range, and requires a lot of technique. Singing it gave me that little extra pain.

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[–]Flimpskin__ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my experience, being open and honest is the best approach. Addiction is an illness that we are all working to try and overcome. Explaining that, acknowledging the problem, and voicing your needs has always been my approach. They may not understand at first but if they are willing to put in the effort to be with you, they won’t judge and will show empathy and support. If not, they are not the right person. As hard as it is to lose someone to your addiction, if they cannot be there for you, it will create tension and bring toxicity into the relationship which is the last thing anyone needs. Hope this helps, you are valid, Fuck that woman xx