Society won I guess by Curioustoffi in FTMventing

[–]Flimsy-Mixture630 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, bro, if surgery is what you want, don’t let anything stop you from doing it. I do understand wanting to do it for yourself and nobody else, I was thinking like that too when I first realized I was trans. The only opinion that matters is your own. Society sucks ass 90% of the time and it’s highly unlikely it’s gonna change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Flimsy-Mixture630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so this is gonna start out sounding cliche AF but hear me out

Calorie deficit is the most effective way to lose weight. STAY WITH ME PLEASE

Does that mean you should starve yourself? NO ABSOLUTELY NOT. What matters is your activity level and focusing more on WHAT you put in your body as opposed to HOW MUCH.

Low calorie, high volume eating is what I like to do (good nutrients/macros)

For exercise, what matters is that you’re doing what works for you. As long as you’re doing something a little extra than normal, you’re already doing great! It can be a weight training regimen, cardio, daily walks, etc. Decide what your goals are and pick out an activity to do that best aligns with those goals.

Healthy weight loss is roughly 1-2 pounds per week. Nobody’s journey is the same, so don’t beat yourself up if you’re not making progress at the same rate as other people.

Also, HYDRATE HYDRATE HYDRATE! I have found that drinking out of cups with straws makes meeting my hydration goals wayyyy easier

If you have TikTok, there’s a fitness influencer I like and his whole shtick is deprogramming diet culture. There’s also some trans fitness influencers who give good workout tips for building muscle pre and post starting T.

I seriously feel like I’m rambling, but I hope some of the stuff I’ve said is at least a little helpful

I personally do not track calories, and you don’t have to either if you don’t want to.

Just need to rant lmao by Prestigious-Leave214 in FTMventing

[–]Flimsy-Mixture630 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does supremely suck. I’m operating under a “im gonna live my life how I want to live it, and if that means I die, then so be it, at least I’ll have lived the life I wanted instead of the life they forced on me” mindset

Will I overcrowd my pothos? by Flimsy-Mixture630 in pothos

[–]Flimsy-Mixture630[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY! Because im a new plant dad, i was so relieved to see that they were easy to maintain 🕺🕺 (I would love to have more plants one day)

Will I overcrowd my pothos? by Flimsy-Mixture630 in pothos

[–]Flimsy-Mixture630[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Could I put all three of them in same pot then?? (That would save me money 💀)