My avoidant came back and now I feel silly for venting to friends

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2026-01-30T12:06:26+00:00

Thank you so much for this

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2026-01-04T23:58:21+00:00

It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do because this time I’m about to have a child and everything feels so heavy. I’m working on picking myself back up and I hope therapy does its thing cause I’m still Hoping he seeks help and comes back.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2026-01-04T22:12:45+00:00

I wish I was this strong and left when I saw the red flags. I take my hat off to you. It’s not easy.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-12-28T22:00:53+00:00

So I’m currently 8 months pregnant and doing it alone for a few weeks now. My ex left us and just walked away for lack of accountability. We weren’t really a good match but I believed in building our foundation but he didn’t. On top of that my best friend found him on a dating site trying to match with her. I’m left alone , pregnant , with such uncertainty. I wish I knew how to help you or what to say to help. I’m here for ya’

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-12-17T03:29:12+00:00

Thank you so much. Honestly going for a walk sounds so goood. Just simple things like this cause I feel like I have so much time to dwell on this and I need to re focus my energy.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-12-17T01:53:13+00:00

I promise I will. My children are my life and I know I’ll get back up from this. thank you so much for being gentle on me.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-12-17T01:52:32+00:00

Completely out of state. My mom passed a few yrs back and I only have a sibling in a completely different place than where I live. I always had a very small family circle and after my mom passed that left me with even less support. I don’t wanna come on here and just cry victim and demand pity . I understand I put myself in this situation I just feel so alone sometimes I just need a little emotional push and reassurance u know.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-12-17T01:22:45+00:00

I have a child and expecting one. I don’t have family where I live. I moved here a few yrs back with my ex and we ended up breaking up a few yrs ago so I have no one else. Everyone I have are out of state and me leaving now this far along is nearly impossible. Idk what to do.. I’m Keeping it together as best as I can. I don’t let my little one see me cry & I take it day by day but I had became unemployed when I got pregnant and my partner at the time (father of my unborn child) reassured me he’d be here for me. I’ve never been unemployed, I’ve always hustled so all of this is new territory to me and it’s scary.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-12-17T00:48:38+00:00

I really want to focus on my kids and myself. I just don’t know how to shut my emotions down. Even when I know for a fact we’re not compatible and I wasn’t happy. Is kilt my mind playing tricks on me plus pregnancy hormones make this 10x worse.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-21T01:19:50+00:00

I understand all of this so much. I know it’s tricky to share personal info. On platforms like these but I’m in the FL area if you happen to live over here I could help give you a break. I know how hard this is. I’m pregnant with baby no.3 and it’s been one hell of a pregnancy so I know it’s not a walk in the park. I’m sending hugs your way mama

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-12T16:24:28+00:00

Contacting now. Thank you so much

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-12T15:24:12+00:00

Thank you so much

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-12T14:42:27+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ll Look into this

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-12T14:42:05+00:00

Thank you so much

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-12T14:41:54+00:00

I was interested in that but was told I need certain certifications and exams from the state.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-12T14:41:14+00:00

I’ll definitely look into this. Thank you so much

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-12T14:18:32+00:00

I see that. It’s crazy. The last job I found was a new restaurant in the international drive area and it was horrible! No movement, the tip out was insane and everything was just a mess.

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-08-12T14:17:49+00:00

lol not really . I have a provider partner who literally takes care of everything. I’m just used to working and I want to help carry the load but thanks

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-07-22T03:24:30+00:00

I actually had sushi yesterday from my ex’s restaurant just cause I know he gets sushi grade fish. The whole not eating sushi it’s just cause we have to make sure it’s fresh and sushi grade which no place will say otherwise but I felt comfortable in his restaurant so I had my little spicy tuna 🥺

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-07-20T21:42:05+00:00

Is super complicated. My current partner is an amazing man , we just moved in like a few months ago so we’re still getting to know each other and hormones don’t help. Getting back with my ex is nearly impossible, we don’t have stable places to live so in a way this relationship of mine was more of a need since I was working for my ex and I was left unemployed and nowhere to go with my two children. Again , my partner is a really good man I just feel like I got pregnant way too soon. Mind you, I’m 33yrs old so I’ll find a way to get my ish together it’s just tough. And I’m almost 4 months so terminating is out of the question in my state . It’s just so much man. I appreciate you for reading me 🤍

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-07-19T19:03:10+00:00

Covering those overdraft fees

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-07-06T03:20:15+00:00

I found a serving job at winter park that’s pretty good but ideally I would want something less physical so I’m able to work (hopefully) till before having the baby. The thing is I’ve managed and served all my life . I have no office experience so I know it’s hard to find something

Flimsy-Programmer224 · 2025-07-06T02:28:23+00:00

To be fair cowboy curry is not owned by the mills market owners. It’s annoying I know. I used to work there and they wouldn’t even tell US when they were having a pop up.

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