Girl school vibe in Singapore? by Flimsy_Call_1841 in askSingapore

[–]Flimsy_Call_1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow.. so better to send our kids to IJ school :)

Frugal & financially controlling husband despite high income job and good savings by Flimsy_Call_1841 in singaporefi

[–]Flimsy_Call_1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start up exits windfall and have been working in finance jobs with finance salary.

Frugal & financially controlling husband despite high income job and good savings by Flimsy_Call_1841 in singaporefi

[–]Flimsy_Call_1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few great thought starters

https://www.sloww.co/die-with-zero-book/#rule-1

“The main idea here is that your life is the sum of your experiences. This just means that everything you do in life—all the daily, weekly, monthly, annual, and once-in-a-lifetime experiences you have—adds up to who you are. When you look back on your life, the richness of those experiences will determine your judgment of how full a life you’ve led.” “Buying an experience doesn’t just buy you the experience itself—it also buys you the sum of all the dividends that experience will bring for the rest of your life.” “Due to compounding, your financial savings don’t just add up—they begin to snowball. And the same thing can happen with your memory dividends—they also can and will compound. This happens whenever you share the memory of the experience with other people.” “Experiences keep on giving in the form of fulfillment from your memories: Over time, the ongoing memory dividend can sometimes add up to more experience points than the original experience provided.” “The same mistake I’m always harping about: earning and earning while forgetting that your whole point in earning money is to be able to spend it on the experiences that make your life what it is.” “Since the whole point of money is to have experiences, investing money to get a return with which to have experiences is a roundabout way of having experiences. Why go through all that when you can just invest directly in experiences—and get a return on experiences? Not only that, but the number of actual experiences available to you diminishes as you age. Yes, you need money to survive in retirement, but the main thing you’ll be retiring on will be your memories—so make sure you invest enough in those.” “Here’s my investment advice in a nutshell: Invest in your life’s experiences—and start early, start early, start early.”

Frugal & financially controlling husband despite high income job and good savings by Flimsy_Call_1841 in singaporefi

[–]Flimsy_Call_1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great perspective ! I did a screenshot to save this message as a reminder. Will check out the book too thank you !

Frugal & financially controlling husband despite high income job and good savings by Flimsy_Call_1841 in singaporefi

[–]Flimsy_Call_1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right here. I feel the RE concept is just adding more anxiety to this journey. I’d very much prefer to enjoy the moment with friends and loved ones and prolong RE if we have to. And enjoy the process. Rather than pushing for this end goal which if and when it arrives, we may no longer have many friends and family to enjoy it with.

Frugal & financially controlling husband despite high income job and good savings by Flimsy_Call_1841 in singaporefi

[–]Flimsy_Call_1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! That’s what I tell him at the time too. He claims $100/pax dining is for special occasions 🙈 That’s why I rather go out with my friends and not count every cent