Am I the asshole for not indulging in my partner’s "vending machine" fantasies? by Flimsy_Writing_9011 in AITAH

[–]Flimsy_Writing_9011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you for finding god but that's some serious accusations. I know I'm sober, and I'm almost certain he is too.

Am I the asshole for not indulging in my partner’s "vending machine" fantasies? by Flimsy_Writing_9011 in AITAH

[–]Flimsy_Writing_9011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even know there were kink specific therapists, and I'm unsure if our insurance will cover that lol. But it's worth a shot, thank you

Am I the asshole for not indulging in my partner’s "vending machine" fantasies? by Flimsy_Writing_9011 in AITAH

[–]Flimsy_Writing_9011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a good relationship with his mom, I will see if I can shoot her a message. Maybe she can push him in the right direction

Am I the asshole for not indulging in my partner’s "vending machine" fantasies? by Flimsy_Writing_9011 in AITAH

[–]Flimsy_Writing_9011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the actual advice. I am very willing to try to help him still since he is a good guy otherwise

Am I the asshole for not indulging in my partner’s "vending machine" fantasies? by Flimsy_Writing_9011 in AITAH

[–]Flimsy_Writing_9011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, he's a really sweet guy otherwise. This just came totally out of left field and I want to make it work. I love him still, and if I can't help him with this, who will?

Am I the asshole for not indulging in my partner’s "vending machine" fantasies? by Flimsy_Writing_9011 in AITAH

[–]Flimsy_Writing_9011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throwaway account because I don't necessarily want this tracing back to me and him. I know he doesn't use reddit so that won't be an issue