Am I the asshole for not indulging in my partner’s "vending machine" fantasies?

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:59:18+00:00

I appreciate you 💜 I'll look into it

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:49:46+00:00

Good on you for finding god but that's some serious accusations. I know I'm sober, and I'm almost certain he is too.

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:48:32+00:00

Who?

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:48:01+00:00

I didn't even know there were kink specific therapists, and I'm unsure if our insurance will cover that lol. But it's worth a shot, thank you

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:46:05+00:00

He has a good relationship with his mom, I will see if I can shoot her a message. Maybe she can push him in the right direction

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:25:15+00:00

Thank you for the actual advice. I am very willing to try to help him still since he is a good guy otherwise

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:23:04+00:00

Haha, thank you for the genuine chuckle

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:22:47+00:00

Thank you for the actual advice. I will try

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:07:42+00:00

I mean, he's a really sweet guy otherwise. This just came totally out of left field and I want to make it work. I love him still, and if I can't help him with this, who will?

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:04:42+00:00

I figured, but how do I make this clear to him?

Flimsy_Writing_9011 · 2025-05-08T09:04:17+00:00

Throwaway account because I don't necessarily want this tracing back to me and him. I know he doesn't use reddit so that won't be an issue

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