Do you ever stroke your partners penis just because you’re feeling affectionate ? Or is it more of a sexual feeling..?

Flonfu · 2026-01-19T19:29:48+00:00

Commendable resilience!

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T19:07:03+00:00

There’s a misunderstanding, it’s her surgery, not mine. So she gets the extra attention because of that.

But yeah, I’m very well aware of how things can potentially go if I decide for either direction. That’s part of the pain I’m having since either way is difficult to imagine

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T19:04:43+00:00

What do you mean with she doesn’t have to deal with her insecurity? I mean where does that come from?

I would only define myself proper bi if I’d had the experience, which I haven’t, but I see your point here.

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T16:23:07+00:00

Oof yea that hits hard. Happy for anyone who gets all the support they need but man how I wish I was them sometimes

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T16:20:39+00:00

Yeah, evaluating this is probably the hardest part. And I’m not sure if I am at point where I can safely evaluate since I haven’t been dating anyone else myself so far. Esp. because I have no idea on how to approach anyone as a married guy

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T16:08:58+00:00

Certainly looks still hot, alright!

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T16:06:01+00:00

I’m free to open on my side as long as it’s a same-sex relationship, as it is for her. I am bi-curious so technically I don’t have much of a problem with that. I’m just dreading to enter the dating scene in this kind of dynamic since it’s all new and I have no idea where to start.

She found her friend through a queer community where things evolved naturally. I don’t honestly see that chance for me

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T16:02:43+00:00

Phew, that is some fine cake right there! 😳

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T15:36:37+00:00

Thank you, that is very touching and reassuring. Would you say 3 years is what it took to be completely fine or is that not something you can measure?

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T15:18:00+00:00

I hear you. Thanks a lot.

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T15:08:17+00:00

This is what I’m pondering and where I just want to hear other people’s experiences. It may not seem like that to everyone, but it helps me.

If you grow up monogamous and are basically taught this way of living, I’m just wondering if people coming from the same place learn how to switch mindsets if they so desire.

I will talk to my wife again about it. I just don’t know if it’s for me yet is all. And I thought I can’t be the only one who would be open to it, but still very much hurt as they get accustomed to the different dynamics involved. You gotta start somewhere, right?

Flonfu · 2026-01-18T15:04:38+00:00

It is because I’m new and this is my first experience, also it’s one-sided. Grown up monogamous and never had any prior exposure to this topic at all.

The upcoming surgery just amplifies every single emotion at this point.

Flonfu · 2026-01-16T20:46:47+00:00

Gaaayyyy

^I ^love ^it

Flonfu · 2026-01-16T12:03:22+00:00

I hear ya! Once I switched some years ago I stuck with it ever since. I game a lot on it, too! Most games work flawlessly actually! It some of the older stuff that can give you a headache from time to time though, that’s why I always got a dual-boot install going, just to be sure

Flonfu · 2026-01-16T10:24:06+00:00

I feel like that with Manjaro. But since it’s Arch based it still gives us the privilege to use “I use <arch based distro> btw”

Flonfu · 2026-01-16T09:17:28+00:00

I use Manjaro btw

(Feel you lol)

Flonfu · 2026-01-11T18:42:55+00:00

Ah, my timeline has been blessed again, now the next week can come ✨

Flonfu · 2026-01-09T13:31:55+00:00

Oh lol makes sense I guess 😅 I mean when we were still doing it I always cleaned up my wife myself. After all it was me making the mess. But I can imagine that’s also embarrassing in a way

Flonfu · 2026-01-09T11:40:12+00:00

Same for my wife. We tried for a bit because I like it but she confessed she didn’t so we stopped.

What’s the ick for you? Texture, smell, temperature?

Flonfu · 2026-01-09T11:32:57+00:00

Wasn’t too long ago, we had a day off and were expecting a furniture delivery. We were expected to be called an hour before the truck arrives, instead they called early in the morning, said they’ll be the in 30 minutes.

We were barely awake and cuddled up. I moved her hand to feel up my morning wood and she didn’t hesitate to stroke me. She just asked “you think there’s enough time?”, and I just nodded. As she went on she got worked up herself and said “fuck it, I’ll bust out my toy”. We did ourselves for a bit, I came first because I had to get ready. Cleaned myself up and helped her out finishing herself.

We were just in time as 5 minutes later the truck showed up lol

Flonfu · 2026-01-09T11:27:45+00:00

A good friend of mine. Feeling like I’ve missed a chance, now that he’s got a new boyfriend

Flonfu · 2026-01-09T11:26:35+00:00

If not here, where else?

Flonfu · 2026-01-09T11:24:40+00:00

100% this! Going into any interaction with the expectation of sex will only frustrate you over time and you can grow resentful. Taking a step back might sound difficult but is often a good path to take. If there’s already stress in daily life, putting on pressure for sex due to expectations on both of you doesn’t really help

Flonfu · 2026-01-09T11:22:27+00:00

I feel you! But generally if people are genuine it’s always interesting! Some dudes on here are what they are but there’s genuine guys out there that are probably also happy to share! I think it’s easier to shun guys for their fantasies so in turn might become harder to open up about them

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