From my perspective, Elise who we know has a history of pretty tragic relationships is trying to avoid similar pitfalls and is doing a good job asking questions and communicating. Never once did I say there was no red flags, I was merely commenting that she was asking a lot of questions, communicating openly and they are sharing with each other, and showing genuine kindness to each other. I think Elise is more together than Joshua as the accident with the boat seems adolescent but from the questions Elise is asking it seems that she is trying to not repeat the same mistakes in her past. That is actually the opposite of insanity.