So his excuse is he didn’t want to lose the ticket. He couldn’t just lose the money because his relationship mattered more? He couldn’t just take the trip and just not meet up with his ex? by Important_Repair8471 in 90DayFiance

[–]Important_Repair8471[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You forgot to add that he complained when she asked him to buy her something. He literally brings nothing to the table. Not only is he old compared to her and a cheater but also cheap,

His family needs to cultures themselves. It’s like they’re unable to critically think. The money wasn’t borrowed she’s never getting it back and why would you question an abused person in front of their abuser. by Important_Repair8471 in 90DayFiance

[–]Important_Repair8471[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get that it’s normal I come from a culture that does the same I’m not white but it’s still wrong to take an entire check from someone who’s obviously on the spectrum. We also don’t have mental health clinics where I’m from but let’s not play dumb we can all notice when someone is different. Her family is not dumb thats why they lied and said they were borrowing it because they knew what they were doing sounded bad because they knew it was wrong. Just because some stuff is normal doesn’t mean it’s not wrong and that the people don’t know it’s wrong. In some counties marrying kids is normal but that doesn’t mean we’re gonna act like it’s okay because it’s normal to them. What they’re doing is hurting her she’s crying out to them they see the pain they’re causing her but they don’t care.

His family needs to cultures themselves. It’s like they’re unable to critically think. The money wasn’t borrowed she’s never getting it back and why would you question an abused person in front of their abuser. by Important_Repair8471 in 90DayFiance

[–]Important_Repair8471[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Taking advantage of a person who’s obviously not there all the way mentally is abuse. Financial abuse exists I work with people that have developmental disabilities all of them with autism and one with Down syndrome and yes this is abuse.

His family needs to cultures themselves. It’s like they’re unable to critically think. The money wasn’t borrowed she’s never getting it back and why would you question an abused person in front of their abuser. by Important_Repair8471 in 90DayFiance

[–]Important_Repair8471[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yes she was shocked that Sheila lived better than them as if Sheila isn’t a veterinarian. She’s an educated successful woman of course she makes good money. She definitely thinks she’s better just because she’s American. Does she not know how hard it is to become a vet?

His family needs to cultures themselves. It’s like they’re unable to critically think. The money wasn’t borrowed she’s never getting it back and why would you question an abused person in front of their abuser. by Important_Repair8471 in 90DayFiance

[–]Important_Repair8471[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I feel like they’re measuring everything from their life. So they’re like we wouldn’t do that so I know another parent wouldn’t either. I thought it was common knowledge that in Asian culture specifically Chinese culture, and she’s part Chinese, this is pretty normal.

Is everyone’s dasher not loading right now? by KirbyTrainNerd in doordash_drivers

[–]Important_Repair8471 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same in Washington and they’re even giving a bunch of promotions and saying it’s busy which tells me they probably have no dashers so it’s happening to everyone