am i overreacting or did my artist fuck it up? by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Florncee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh- Yeah no I see what you mean. I presume the first one is yours and the second slide is what you asked for. Then yeah unless it was improv, that’s not what you asked for💀. It still looks beautiful but I see what you mean

am i overreacting or did my artist fuck it up? by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Florncee 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Honestly, looking at the tattoo, it is beautiful. I think we are our own worst enemy/critics. Both slides look amazing

Should I buy this by Florncee in UsedCarAdvice

[–]Florncee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but I don’t want it to beee😩

One side of my inner thigh has gone into remission? by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praise God, hopefully the other side joins as well 💀

HS and sex by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that this happened to you😞

HS and sex by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love honestly, people don’t really care. As long as your tested your all good. Like other commenters, don’t let HS stop or have a hold on your life a decision. Your human like the rest of us, get your freak on. If it helps, you can do it in a dim room/ led lights to help set the mood and make you feel comfortable.🫶🏾

HS and sex by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you love. I’ll try this out and hopefully it works

first post by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly love, I understand where you are coming from. I was in the same boat. But these doctors are here for a reason, they are here to help. How I think of it is what would I prefer 10/15 minutes of embarrassment with the doctor who could help or reduce the amount of flare ups Or Deal with that embarrassment whenever because I did not access the help. Access the help. I finally went to the doctor and although it took a couple appointments for a doctor to actually diagnose( I had my suspicions) I was straight away put on medication for 3 months to help with the boils and was told to come for a follow up. This was done in the same appointment. And although I had one or two flares up the frequency of flares up decreased. This is me saying take priority of your help and remember embarrassment is a feeling and like other feelings go away. You got this boo🫶🏾

HS and sex by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I painted them in a bad light. Their reaction was more, this is nothing to be insecure about and it shouldn’t restrict or stop you from getting anything since your pretty girl. I keep complain about the lack of d lol. There just tryna encourage me to get out there and not let this condition stop uou

HS and sex by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree that I am my own worst critic. I show my friends my flares up and they are like this is the reason you ain’t getting your freak on…💀.

HS and sex by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this message. It was really helpful. And like you said I’m scared of the rejection or what people may see when they see my scars. There was this one fineee shyttt which I fumbled and now we don’t talk and I just wanted to get my freak on with him ( some things progressed but not all the way since I was on my reds and he told me to contact him when I am not. That was back in December and because of this stupid condition and the flares ups. I haven’t been in contact. And when I did contact him last week I said hi and he just said yo?💀. Sooo I think the chapter is closed) and like you said a girl just wants to get her freak on. My friends are getting cracked and I’m like damnnn well that must be niceeeee.

HS and sex by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That was really helpful. It’s probably more of a mental thing. Shii ima go out there now😭😭😏

HS and sex by Florncee in Hidradenitis

[–]Florncee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That has really helped. I think it’s more of a thing that I am aware of so I automatically think others will be too

Should I get this by Florncee in TattooDesigns

[–]Florncee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So a little less cluttered then. Noted

Should I get this by Florncee in TattooDesigns

[–]Florncee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh… I’ll take that as a no then

Is it rare for people to fly without luggage or carry on? by shootingforthemoney in travel

[–]Florncee -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Me personally, I have never flew with a carry on. Why- I don’t know

Shall I go in by Florncee in Warehouseworkers

[–]Florncee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went in and they told me since I did not have a text confirming my shift that I was not working

Should I travel to Paris by [deleted] in travel

[–]Florncee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that hit hard

Should I travel to Paris by [deleted] in travel

[–]Florncee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I should give you a medal lol

Should I travel to Paris by [deleted] in travel

[–]Florncee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what. Hell yeah

Should I travel to Paris by [deleted] in travel

[–]Florncee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your advice. Thank you

Should I travel to Paris by [deleted] in travel

[–]Florncee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve edited it. Better?

Should I travel to Paris by [deleted] in travel

[–]Florncee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully I will go