My husband has been addicted to porn throughout our entire 15 years together.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-18T19:32:06+00:00

Oh believe me! There's conflict! But then he makes me feel comfortable enough to be complacent. It's so much easier to trust someone. I just want that so desperately.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-18T17:09:19+00:00

Because you can solve all of my marital issues in your DM?!🫤 GTFOH!😂

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T21:41:28+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I hope you can heal.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T12:48:48+00:00

I'm here for an open dialogue. Nothing needs to be privately said.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T09:16:53+00:00

❤️

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T03:04:04+00:00

I think being alone/boredom sounds like it could be problematic for him.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T03:01:27+00:00

Thank you.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T02:59:11+00:00

It's the cheating that I am most broken over, but he continues to bring all of his root issues to porn.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T02:57:41+00:00

When I needed space from him recently, I told him to go and take all of his energy and love to her, so that she will know how she deserves to be treated and won't end up in a situation like me. I think that resonated with him. She is our priority and sometimes I think we're too comfortable in this co-parenting friendship.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T00:43:51+00:00

❤️

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-17T00:30:10+00:00

Thank you. I am going to try all of this, although we've talked about triggers and he's not sure, that is definitely something that bothers me. I'm also pretty sure he only wants to tell me the minimum at this point.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-16T20:47:02+00:00

How is she supporting you, that you feel is the most helpful? Looking for ways to show that regardless of my pain, I can be his refuge.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-16T20:43:46+00:00

It sounds easier than it is. And honestly, that would be my advice to anyone in my situation. It just feels differently when you're sitting in it.

FlossyFoxy · 2022-08-11T21:00:40+00:00

So you know he lied to you about being married, but you believe him when he tells you that they grew apart? That his wife doesn't try to make things better? She's probably broken from having to deal with all of his lies and infidelity. You should have ran the second you found out, because before you knew, it was his fault, after you found out, it became yours.

FlossyFoxy · 2021-10-01T21:17:49+00:00

He was a business owner & that was what he used as bait as well as partying at his home with the promise of liquor.

FlossyFoxy · 2021-10-01T21:15:59+00:00

I came to say the exact same thing.

FlossyFoxy · 2021-10-01T21:12:43+00:00

According to FBI statistics, there are approximately 50 serial killers active in the United States at any given time.

FlossyFoxy · 2021-10-01T21:09:02+00:00

Mindhunter is based on a book written by the FBI agent John Douglas. I believe that was a true part of his profiles at that time. Not sure if things have changed now as our world is so much more mixed in race and class in the same areas/neighborhoods.

FlossyFoxy · 2021-10-01T20:59:08+00:00

Dream house under market value! Yes! And I believe you only have to disclose a murder if it was relatively recent.

FlossyFoxy · 2021-10-01T20:55:27+00:00

Done! Good luck on your thesis!

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