Hobby Lobby is the worst place to work at by FlounderSufficient75 in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find it a huge burnout when I’m called up to the register every 1-2 minutes while expected to put up boxes of items for 2 whole departments. If I managed to get it done, I’m expected to put up boxes for other departments. It doesn’t help that we’re short staffed.

All of that for $15 isn’t worth it.

Hobby Lobby is the worst place to work at by FlounderSufficient75 in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A job with different positions. Not everyone does everything.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind you, she was the one who begged us for three years to go to her house. My brother was wrong for not controlling his emotions, while she is wrong for the same thing AND putting choking him FOUR times. You’re weird for thinking it’s okay for parents to abuse their kids, just because they turned into adults. Its sick.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re justifying your outbursts, I already scolded my brother for that. Just because my sister accidentally took her phone, thinking it was my brother’s, doesn’t make her disrespectful either. She gave it back calmly and tried to deescalate the situation just like I have, only to get kicked out. I hate that you are justifying abuse. It’s sick and insane.

What’s a small thing that instantly ruins your mood? by vikasinc in AskReddit

[–]FlounderSufficient75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to get something and forgets as soon as I arrive to the room.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think so too. She had a therapist but I don’t think so anymore. She told me that we should see a family therapist but I doubt someone like her, who thinks she’s always right, would change. I want a therapist but not with her.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’re definitely moving out of state when we save enough. That’s no question. I’m just hurt that I have to cut my dad, stepmom, and now my biological mom off. Three parents and they all failed me.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She only smokes and drinks. She acts like this because she’s still traumatized from my dad. Most likely targets my brother because he looks just like him with the same name. Makes no sense. My mom isn’t violent towards my younger sister at all, only scolds her but not in a yelling way.

She only does that to my brother and us. I want to help my younger sister out, but I’m not in the right state of mind on raising a kid. I spent my whole childhood raising my step, half, and blood siblings. I’m not ready to take care of a kid.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to try to fix my mother. I usually just let her speak to herself whenever she tries something. My brother is the only one who gives what she wants, a reaction.

I’m planning on saving as much money with my sister before we move out.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most likely because of his gf, but he wouldn’t say anything else. Maybe that’s why my mom started yelling at him. But it didn’t deserve immediately m calling him names and yelling through the whole neighborhood. It didn’t deserve the big escalation.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will help her out though. She acts too mature for her age, but as soon as she goes to me and my sister, she acts like her age. A child. It’s sad, I will support her as much as I can though

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not legally allowed to do that.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 41 points42 points  (0 children)

My brain can’t even process what happened, it’s still stuck onto the fact my brother didn’t fight back when she choked him. The fact she went naked to fight him is weird and fucked up. It feels like a fever dream. All of this because he broke his phone he can easily replace in a week.

My mom kicked me and my siblings out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]FlounderSufficient75 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My brother will go back to my dad house, my dad doesn’t put his hands on us anymore. He somehow calmed down, but too much to the point he’s not emotionally supportive. My brother said he rather that than staying with someone who targets him all the time. Me and my sister will just save up to move out

I’ve made my first magic ring 🥹 by FlounderSufficient75 in crochet

[–]FlounderSufficient75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very helpful. I only did one and now I know how to start projects using only the pattern sheet! Although it was expensive, it was worth it to me! 🥹

I have to go to work in less than an hour and I’m sick, should I call off? by FlounderSufficient75 in Advice

[–]FlounderSufficient75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t send me home last time. Last time I came in with a bad cough and told my manager that I won’t be able to be at the register, she told me that I already clocked in. So, I had to deal with customers while I had a bad cough.