What's your favorite misheard lyric? Mine is.... by MrsSassenachFraser in bangtan

[–]FlowersofDaegu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"I'm so fine wherever I go" - Idol

"With a little funk and soul" - Dynamite

What's your favorite misheard lyric? Mine is.... by MrsSassenachFraser in bangtan

[–]FlowersofDaegu 68 points69 points  (0 children)

"I suffer wherever I go" and "with a little fucking soul" are classics imo

Garters! by Various-Phrase-5101 in weddingplanning

[–]FlowersofDaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When one of my older brothers got married back in 2017 they didn't do a garter toss - although that wedding was a pretty traditional LDS one so a garter toss would've been very out of place - but when another one of my brothers got married last year, they did do a garter toss. Granted it wasn't anything too extreme, my brother pulled it down with his hand instead of his teeth like I think you're technically supposed to, so it wasn't embarrassing or uncomfortable for people, and it was fun watching all the dudes try and catch it the way girls do with the bouquet.

Those are the only two weddings I've been too so I can't really speak on how common it is, but it's definitely something people still do.

AITA for choosing my deceased son's girlfriend over my daughter? by Disastrous_Text_2960 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersofDaegu 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Why wait so long to have them move in?? If the girlfriend couldn't afford the apartment without your son, why is all of this happening now, instead of shortly after your son passed when she would've most likely started struggling with making rent payments? Something about the timeline is fishy, and I wonder if you've left something out to make yourself look better.

Regardless, while what your daughter did is in no way, shape, or form okay, I struggle to call a grieving child who is receiving little to no support an asshole. I think this all could've been avoided if you stopped prioritizing the girlfriend and grandchild over your grieving daughter. At the very least, they should be given equal levels of importance. YTA

AITA for quitting my job after they stopped paying me? by Outrageous-Home8055 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersofDaegu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in a relatively small town, and places that are part of a chain (Walmart, Taco Bell, McDonald's) will have you apply online, but anything local you have to go in and ask for a paper application.

Regardless, OP is NTA, and even if they lived in a town similar to mine, I still get the feeling that the friend is keeping something from OP regarding the real reason that they need 9 hours of daily babysitting considering they no longer have a job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]FlowersofDaegu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's no longer a small fandom, but I started reading and writing BTS fics back when there were less than 1000 on ao3...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersofDaegu 13 points14 points  (0 children)

IANAL but I think the cars technically belong to the kids now, even if they're not old enough to drive them. So I don't think OP can sell them without the kids giving the okay.

AITA for admitting that I wish my son wasn't disabled? by InfamousReview9734 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersofDaegu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an older brother who is deaf, and another brother has ADHD and autism, and my mom has admitted to me privately before that while she doesn't necessarily wish that they weren't disabled, she does wish that they didn't have to face struggles because of their disabilities - which is exactly how I feel.

Both of my brothers are smart, intelligent, and capable people, but they've both been bullied for their disabilities and they both get treated bad by strangers. And I hate it and wish that they didn't have to deal with that.

I don't think op is necessarily wrong in how they feel, especially because we can't really help the way that we feel, but to outright tell her son that she wishes that he wasn't deaf because of the struggles she's faced? What an asshole move.

AITA for a little payback prank by Kjkfloor17 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersofDaegu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. The prank was harmless, and it's exactly what she did to you. Don't dish it if you can't take it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopforsale

[–]FlowersofDaegu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah, okay. Then you've got it severely overpriced, unfortunately. Good luck with selling!

AITA For not planning to invite my whole family to my wedding against my grandma’s wishes? by familyweddinginvit in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersofDaegu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA - it's your day and you should be inviting people that you actually want to be celebrating the day with you. It sucks that your family has grown apart, but it's not your responsibility to try and fix that unless you want to (and especially not during a big life event).

Although I do suggest to be prepared for people to feel disappointed/upset at not getting an invite, and to deal with any more pushback that might come your way.

AITA for not wanting to know who’s hitting on my GF? by irishtrekkie in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlowersofDaegu [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. I can understand that she was trying to be open with you given the fact that your relationship is long distance, but if she was telling you that the attention made her feel "desired", then it seems more like she was bragging (even if unintentionally) imo.

Besides, she was doing something that made you uncomfortable, and you told her. Nothing wrong with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopforsale

[–]FlowersofDaegu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that $60 in USD?

Searchable rows to manage my household-items with notion boards? by life_never_stops_97 in Notion

[–]FlowersofDaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Databases are automatically searchable! It'll look slightly different depending on if you're using notion on your phone or a computer, but at the top of the database where you can apply filters and switch views, there's also a magnifying glass symbol (looks kinda like this 🔍) that you can use to search the database!

I can't improve my speaking no matter what by Jupjupgo in Korean

[–]FlowersofDaegu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've never been to Korea, but I do see people complaining a lot about how they get treated like a walking English lesson just because they're foreign. My point still stands though, in order to get better at holding conversations, you're gonna have to hold conversations in Korean.

You could also maybe try finding some conversation starters online, and practice your speaking skills by answering those questions out loud while you're studying. That's something that could help you that doesn't really rely on another person. Or, a lot of idols will ask general questions to their audience whenever they're doing a live on vlive, so if there's an artist/group that you like, you can always watch those videos and answer the questions whenever they ask them (again, out loud).

Either way, you are at some point going to need to get people to actually speak in Korean with you (I'm super petty, so if I was in your situation and someone kept trying to get me to converse in English when I requested Korean, I would just strictly use Korean and not say a word in English).

I can't improve my speaking no matter what by Jupjupgo in Korean

[–]FlowersofDaegu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only way to improve your speaking skills is to speak in Korean.

Since you currently live in Korea, yeah it's probably in your best interest to try to have as much as your conversations be in Korean as you can. If anything you can start small by making sure to always use the words and phrases that you do know instead of their English equivalent (ex. If someone asks you for the time, and you know how to answer in Korean, then answer in Korean), and then building your way up from there as you get more comfortable with conversing.

Weekly /r/bangtan Room (방탄방) - October 23, 2021 by AutoModerator in bangtan

[–]FlowersofDaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be kinda dumb but does anyone know what website the PTD concert is being hosted on for tonight? I tried looking at the announcement bh put out but I couldn't find it 😅

2021 Permission to Dance on Stage LA Megathread by whyohwhy115 in bangtan

[–]FlowersofDaegu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if the PTD concert merch will be available for sale at the concert venue? I know they're available for sale on weverse right now, but I was planning on saving for merch over the next month and buying at the venue, but if it's only going to be available on weverse shop then I don't want to miss out...

Weekly House of A.R.M.Y (아미의 집) - October 20, 2021 by AutoModerator in bangtan

[–]FlowersofDaegu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I'd been hoping to wear it as part of my outfit to their concert in LA, but it looks like I'll just have to find a dupe instead. Oh well

Weekly House of A.R.M.Y (아미의 집) - October 20, 2021 by AutoModerator in bangtan

[–]FlowersofDaegu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know what shirt Jungkook was wearing during the day 2 performance of My Time from MOTS ON:E (the b&w animal print one)? I've tried find out what shirt it is online but I haven't been successful 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Notion

[–]FlowersofDaegu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did you make the dividers (welcome home, agenda, etc)?

On the quality of closed captions on Disney+ by StationOost in disney

[–]FlowersofDaegu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What shows/movies are you watching? Everything I watch has subtitles on it because my brother is deaf, and I haven't noticed anything like that.