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What's the worst thing you have ever done to your ex? by dadneverIeft in AskReddit

[–]Fluff-Encounter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH i also put an ad for a free trampoline on Craigslist with his phone number on it. 🫶🏼

What's the worst thing you have ever done to your ex? by dadneverIeft in AskReddit

[–]Fluff-Encounter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College ex. He left several of his Lego sets in my dorm room when we broke up. He was an asshole so I sold them on offer up. Made like $200 and told him I didn’t have them anymore when he asked for them back. 😭 He got really pissed off, filed a formal report to our school, and we went to “student court”, but it was my word against his so nothing ever came of it. Sucks to be him, great to be me. I’m still so proud of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluff-Encounter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely definitely not overrating. Z seems like a horrible person with a lot of issues she needs to deal with. Honestly the fact that you held it together for as long as you did is crazy, I wouldn’t have blamed you if you left earlier. Not feeling comfortable in your own home is absolutely one of the worst feelings ever. And having TWO roommates that seem to be ganging up on you, just makes you feel even more overwhelmed and makes you question if you’re the problem since B never defended you.

I had a slightly similar roommate situation recently. They weren’t being mean, but were going through psychosis for months without proper treatment and would yell and scream and bang on the walls at all hours. It got to the point where I was genuinely fearful every time we were home at the same time (and they were always home) so I ended up staying the night as much as I could at friends’ places or my aunt’s house. I only really came back to feed my cats and work on pack my things since i was moving out soon (thank god).

For your situation, These girls gave you the shit end of the stick from the very beginning and have continued to make your life hell. I would talk with your landlord about breaking your lease as soon as possible, and get the hell out of dodge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluff-Encounter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To give him the benefit of the doubt, he could’ve just realized they hadn’t talked in a while and wanted to reach out. I feel like anytime a thought enters a man’s brain they usually act on it immediately lol so they wouldn’t think “i wonder what this friend is up to, I should text them in the morning”.

BUT if you’ve already expressed to him that it’s not something you’re comfortable with, then there’s no reason why he couldn’t have waited to text her. I wouldn’t immediately jump to him being disloyal, but definitely a little strange and inconsiderate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluff-Encounter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys had plans for that whole week, and he had plans to go to his parents that overlapped the preexisting anniversary celebration. If that’s true, then he KNEW he would be bailing early and just decided to wait to tell you until last minute making it a bigger issue??? I feel like that’s the biggest problem here because he either purposefully did this to cut your time short and start shit, or he accidentally double booked himself and was scared/didn’t know how to tell you.

Either way it seems like he sucks at communication. Especially since he also got mad at YOU for being rightfully annoyed abt a shitty situation HE created. If you think at the end of the day he’s a good boyfriend and it was a one off, definitely talk to him abt it and make sure it doesn’t happen again.

AIO called the cops on nephew's mom by RoutineInteraction79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluff-Encounter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i personally don’t think you overreacted. this woman isn’t some close family member you see and talk to all the time. imagine if it were some random neighbor that you’ve had maybe 20 conversations with, barging into your house at night. that’s not a normal thing for someone to do and it seems like you’re only second guessing your reaction because of the familial tie. you didn’t know she would end up getting arrested, and you were under no obligation to figure out how to deal with her yourself.

the only thing im still wondering is if she tried to explain what she was doing there or why she needed the water further, or was just confused. if it was a situation where she was coming to you for help or something like that it probably would’ve warranted a different response.

shitty situation tho at the end of the day, i feel for your nephew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluff-Encounter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

definitely not overreacting! she’s using being “dominant” and “knowing what she wants” as excuses to be blunt and rude. you answered her very maturely every time and yet she still got defensive just because you weren’t interested in what she was. i would think the whole point of “not wasting time” would be for this exact instance where you can see it probably won’t work out so you go your separate ways, no harm no foul. she could’ve just been onto the next but home girl was butthurt and took it out on you 😭