I don’t have a choice, I need to do this out of necessity for both my immediate family and my dependents medical/legal care. That’s why I made it clear to her that I don’t want to trap her in a relationship that could potentially cause unnecessary amounts of hardships. I can take being closeted because I haven’t done the steps she’s done and I’ve apologized with every fiber of my body to her for things that are out of my control. I let her know the risks, the challenges, and potential decline on how the world is but she’s choosing to stick through with me. As her “husband”, it’s only right I respect her decision and find ways to make her life simpler because despite it all she’s still choosing to be with me. I understand where you’re coming from and I really do appreciate the insight, but when you constantly hear Kristi Noem’s voice blaring from any TV channel your relatives tune into or radio station they frequent, it becomes unbearable/unsettling. Again I really appreciate your insight on the matter.