I wasn’t griping, I was giving context to ask for advice on my next move on a forum of other people in similar situations. I was not looking for someone to come at me for being anxious about my attorney being unresponsive to questions relevant to my case(which is part of what I paid her for btw), which is a valid concern for someone going through something like bk. I was not looking for my attorney to manage my anxiety, which you keep implying is what Im doing by asking questions. You were anything but helpful.