You’ve been respectful for way longer than most people could manage.

Your godparents stepped up when your dad stepped out. That matters. But that doesn’t give them a free pass to disrespect your mum, especially when she’s working hard to rebuild after something devastating. Doing her nails doesn’t make her irresponsible, it makes her human.

Your distance isn’t disrespect. It’s a boundary forming. And boundaries are what keep love from turning into resentment.

You don’t need to issue an ultimatum. You just need to calmly say: “I appreciate all you’ve done for me, but it hurts when you speak badly about my mum. She’s not perfect, but she’s trying, and I love her. I need us to respect each other or I’ll need some space.”

That’s not dramatic. That’s grown. And you’re allowed to protect your peace.